How's your week going, Beehaw?
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I turned down a job offer due to its lack of transparency and structure. I feel regret and relief. Someone told me I could've just taken the job and see how it would take off (as a very new startup), but I was eyeing their unguaranteed, unpredictable hours (no social outreach, online contact info, questionable timeliness, etc.) in conflict with my transportation logistics and said no. Plus...I've seen disorganized leadership before, and I detected it throughout the whole process.
They kept saying it might've been worth a try, though. And it's like great, sure, stir up more of my regret and what ifs. I definitely declined it without any hesitation whatsoever.
Other than that, had another interview. It was weird and oddly short. Not confident.
Aaand...I pet my dog. A lot. He's fluffy.
I think you trusted your gut, and I think that's 100% the right play. Honestly how often does a job with a bunch of red flags turn out to be, SURPRISE, awesome? Not too often, imo.
I'm still cheering for you and I'm confident that all will be well given time.