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[-] primscha@beehaw.org 4 points 1 day ago

I turned down a job offer due to its lack of transparency and structure. I feel regret and relief. Someone told me I could've just taken the job and see how it would take off (as a very new startup), but I was eyeing their unguaranteed, unpredictable hours (no social outreach, online contact info, questionable timeliness, etc.) in conflict with my transportation logistics and said no. Plus...I've seen disorganized leadership before, and I detected it throughout the whole process.

They kept saying it might've been worth a try, though. And it's like great, sure, stir up more of my regret and what ifs. I definitely declined it without any hesitation whatsoever.

Other than that, had another interview. It was weird and oddly short. Not confident.

Aaand...I pet my dog. A lot. He's fluffy.

[-] shynoise@beehaw.org 2 points 21 hours ago

I think you trusted your gut, and I think that's 100% the right play. Honestly how often does a job with a bunch of red flags turn out to be, SURPRISE, awesome? Not too often, imo.

[-] remington@beehaw.org 3 points 1 day ago

I'm still cheering for you and I'm confident that all will be well given time.

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