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This might sound weird, and it's not a fetish I promise. But I feel like there's a sort of stigma behind one night stands with wheelchair users.

I wanna fuck them just like I'd fuck anybody else.

But there aren't really that many chances to meet single wheelchair users, and I can't really message one on a dating app and be like "yea I just wanna fuck you".

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[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

Yo run into trouble in two ways. First, not everyone in a chair is in it for the same reason. Second, you end up largely limited in how casual it can be by virtue of some people needing to have specialty gear to get into and out of chairs. This often means that in extreme cases, you'll more or less be limited to going back to their place. That's a big ask for a one night stand when someone is in a difficult situation.

That being said, or depends on three main factors: flexibility, mobility, and sensation.

There's dozens of things that can have a person in a chair. Could be something like bad joints at the least restrictive end, up to something like quadriplegia at the most restrictive.

Now, disclaimer here, most of my patients that were in chairs are their main form of mobility were men. The female patients I had in that category weren't exactly sharing their sex lives with me, beyond a couple of attempts to involve me directly (though a couple of men offered that too).

So, a lot of what I can offer is second hand at best, if you're a man wanting to have sex with women in chairs.

With that in mind, what exactly are you wanting to know?

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