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this post was submitted on 14 Mar 2026
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Similarly, I find it slightly annoying when you thank a cashier and they respond by saying you're welcome. This exchange was purely transactional (I paid for my items and you did your job), so please don't imply that you did me some sort of personal favor. But like you, I won't say anything about it to the cashier because their job is already hard enough.
By saying "Thank you" and "You're welcome" you're expressing mutual willingness to end the transaction in a civilized way. It's just a standard politeness, a phrase. No need to read into the original meanings. Nowadays and in the context of shopping you're just both saying everything went well and you're finishing the transaction in peace, there's no implication of anything - meanings evolve.