I can appreciate beautiful/charming women when I meet them, and sometimes I even get flustered talking to them. But I wouldn't say I desire them. My girlfriend is peak woman IMO, the perfect partner for me. As long as she's with me then I don't need another person in that way.
That said, I've absolutely been in relationships in the past where I desired others and wondered what it would be like to be with someone else.
There are tons of issues with healthcare in the US, but quality of care isn't one of them. Go to any major hospital in the US and you'll receive world-class treatment, you'll just most likely spend years paying it off.