13
How do you learn about beauty, fashion, makeup?
(self.womensstuff)
Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.
Rules…
At least for me I do it for myself because I already get weird looks from people for using a cane at my age. So I just kinda started to putting more emphasis on what I wanted, rather than what others wanted. It’s still all what fits the gender I identify myself with, and all stuff that people my age do wear. Just put together in a way I want it to, not what others might want.
that makes sense, you already "stick out" in a sense and can't conform as easily to social expectations, so why not lean into it - the alienation you experience leaves you less motivated to cater to social pressures
Thanks for the explanation, that makes sense 💜