I get what you're saying (I hope ;-) ) and agree that women are allowed to do things that men aren't.

[TW: Suicide, violence] I also think there are important differences between male privileges and female "privileges". Male "disadvantages"* are generally still in the control of males. Military service is (or at least was) something that men (as a class) did to themselves, because they were the rulers. Prohibiting women from working or having a bank account was not something women had control over. Men commit suicide more often than women, but a suicide is still something that is ultimately in your hands - being murdered by your (ex-)partner or some stranger in a park isn't. Of course it isn't really that clear cut: how much control do you have when you are suffering from depression? And how much are you to blame for not seeking help when you've been trained you're whole life to be "independent" and not show (or even feel) emotions?

But while it's definitely not clear cut, I still think there are enough systematic differences to make distinction useful. Especially as the male privileges are much more in tune with what our society values: people get praised for getting shit done (be it fixing cars or shooting them into space), nation wide stories about being a good listener or friend are much rarer. You can amass insane amounts of money, and people will actually admire you instead of calling you greedy, while at least in Germany people start to have prejudices if you have more than two or three kids.

(*english is not my native language so I'm not as nuanced as I'd like to be)