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Why wouldn’t you want to get married
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It will be twenty years with my husband next year.
I would love to get actually married and not just call him my husband, but he is "an adult disabled since childhood" and if he gets married he loses all his health care and ssdi and such. (Unless he marries another "adult disabled since childhood" which I'm not)
Given how the government is slowly destroying all those things, maybe we'll get married then die because we can't live without them.