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[-] Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social 196 points 1 year ago

My parents had a porn blocker, and all it made me do was learn enough about computers to circumvent it. Even if they put age verification in front of every porn site in the world there's still torrents and chat rooms and forums all over where you can find it, and kids will find it. Next thing they'll mandate is putting toothpaste back in the tube.

[-] Mr_Dr_Oink@lemmy.world 78 points 1 year ago

Trying to stop people from doing something is a sure fire way to guarantee they will do that thing.

[-] Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social 79 points 1 year ago

It's not that. It's that if you tell a horny teenager that there's pictures of naked people somewhere they'll move heaven and earth to get to it.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

Guess we shouldn't have any laws about anything, then.

[-] Mr_Dr_Oink@lemmy.world 66 points 1 year ago

Bit of a leap, my dude.

Of course we should have laws.

But for things that are actually harmful.

For everything else we should have regulation.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

If your single point is "trying to stop people only makes them do it more", than no, it's not a "leap". That invalidates the very idea of having laws in the first place.

And fwiw, I'm not arguing in favor of this law, just against the idea you replied with.

[-] orphiebaby@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

We didn't say this about everything (although it is true that some kinds of people are attracted to anything forbidden). We said it's true of teenagers and porn. Duh.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

We said it’s true of teenagers and porn. Duh.

I don't see any such qualifiers. Do you?

[-] orphiebaby@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Semi-Hemi-Demigod said:

It’s not that. It’s that if you tell a horny teenager that there’s pictures of naked people somewhere they’ll move heaven and earth to get to it.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I wasn't responding to them, so how does that matter?

[-] reverendsteveii@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

And fwiw, I’m not arguing in favor of this law, just against the idea you replied with.

Whatever you're arguing for or against, you're arguing like a drunk uncle. You're taking it to an extreme that it's obvious no one actually intended, and then arguing against that extreme like it was the original point.

[-] ech@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not arguing against extremes, I'm arguing against a bad argument. And I'm not drunk, I only wish I were.

[-] Muddobbers@infosec.pub 43 points 1 year ago

Not only will they find it, they'll end up going to the sketchier sites that don't do the age verification because they're not well known enough and not following the laws and they'll likely get something infected on the computer/network or worse.

[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 31 points 1 year ago

Not only will they find it, they’ll end up going to the sketchier sites that don’t do the age verification because they’re not well known enough and not following the laws and they’ll likely get something infected on the computer/network or worse.

It's like that time we declared a war on drugs and then there were no drugs. Wait, actually that led to a massive black market and tons of violence.

Point being, you're not gonna stop it. You're just gonna make it less safe.

[-] Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

Yep. Who among us as idiot teenagers hasn't downloaded "$current_starlet full nude sex tape.exe" from some shady site?

[-] crackdroid@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Certainly not me.

I use Arch Linux btw.

[-] cake@lemmings.world 10 points 1 year ago

wine is launching

[-] TheRedSpade@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Even as an idiot teenager I knew the difference between an executable and a video file.

[-] TopRamenBinLaden@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think you were the exception not the rule. Or maybe I'm just old. Back in my day you would try to open that linkin_park.mp3 that you downloaded off of limewire, and who knows what you were actually gonna get. Normally some heinous porn or gore video, but I'm sure there was an executable or three in those, too.

I think nowadays this is harder to do, but I could still see some kid getting fooled on some shady tracker site or something.

[-] casualucco3@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

For me learning about file extensions was definitely heavily influenced by early Kazaa / Limewire / DC++ days :) Fool me once etc..

[-] TheRedSpade@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I definitely got my share of stuff that didn't match the title from Limewire, but the only .exe I ever downloaded from it was Limewire Pro. It took zero effort to check the file name for the extension.

[-] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 22 points 1 year ago

Funny you should mention putting toothpaste back in a tube, because I actually helped someone do that last night. It's possible, but also a huge pain in the ass. That's not a commentary on anything besides literal toothpaste.

I would like to hear the rest of the story, please.

[-] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My housemate was going on a trip to Alaska the next morning. She had a mostly empty 3 oz toothpaste tube and she was trying to refill it from a larger tube. No idea what she was so opposed to just buying toothpaste when she arrived. I think she was mostly just doing it because she could.

The solution involved holding the tubes end to end and squeezing the larger tube, alternating with using a stirring rod to pack the toothpaste into the smaller tube.

[-] ieatpillowtags@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago
[-] lolcatnip@reddthat.com 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My housemate was going on a trip to Alaska the next morning. She had a mostly empty 3 oz toothpaste tube and she was trying to refill it from a larger tube. No idea what she was so opposed to just buying toothpaste when she arrived. I think she was mostly just doing it because she could.

The solution involved holding the tubes end to end and squeezing the larger tube, alternating with using a stirring rod to pack the toothpaste into the smaller tube.

[-] Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

I'd build some kind of suction device to put negative air pressure on the tube while holding the nozzle in the toothpaste

[-] m4xie 2 points 1 year ago

I think I saw something like that on YouTube. I'll look for the video later.

[-] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 year ago

When my wife insisted I put a porn blocker on the internet, I did some simple DNS tinkering, then told my son not to let his mother catch him bypassing the "blocker" I put on.

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 13 points 1 year ago

When I was growing up we had the ultimate porn blocker.

Dial up internet was far too slow to load more than about half an image per hour.

[-] LuckyCat@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

This blows my mind. Why not just push back on your wife for being ridiculous? I say this as a woman with two boys who has been married for 10 years.

[-] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

One picks their battles...

[-] DreadPirateShawn 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

toothpaste back in the tube

Well now there's an apt metaphor... :-P

[-] Achird@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

I just think of it as a safety net to prevent (or at least reduce the risk) of young children accidently stumbling upon something nasty or graphic that they didn’t mean to.

This should also be done by proper parenting and supervision but as technology and internet devices are friggin everywhere I don’t think it’s a bad idea for parents to also have some decent filters on their internet connection.

Doesn’t stop someone who even knows half way what they are doing, but by that point hopeful parents will have talked and educated their children about things before there’s a concern about intention seeking stuff out.

[-] Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social 40 points 1 year ago

Porn sites have had "Confirm you are over 18" since the dial up days. That's about as much of a safety net as I think is necessary or practicable.

[-] Achird@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 year ago

A decent filter on a network (think pi-hole and next dns and the like) helps block adverts, trackers, scam sites, shady pop ups as well as bog standard porn sites etc

Internet is full of things that it’s easy to accidentally stumble on that you wouldn’t want a young kid to see and I think it’s a reasonable step to have some basic levels of controls on your own network

The onus is on the parents to manage internet access in a way the feel best and shouldn’t be forced or assumed. definitely not to porn sites (or any other site!) to collect entirely unnecessary personal data which would inevitably get leaked.

[-] Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

I totally agree and I put in a good faith effort to block that stuff from my kids' devices using a pihole and what's available on their phones. But I remember being their age and getting away with things because I figured out the workarounds.

At the very least it'll teach them a little about networking and computers which will serve them well in their careers.

[-] Achird@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Absolutely, that’s why I keep saying “accidentally” - anyone who thinks an internet filter will stop someone with any determination is kidding themselves.

[-] misterundercoat@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Instead of the age confirmation dialog, they should implement an age-captcha, like "identify these musical artists" or "click on all the squares with physical storage media."

[-] joshLaserbeam@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago

Like in Leisure suite Larry! Although sometimes those answers change, like this one:

O. J. Simpson is

a.an R & B singer.

b.under indictment.

c.embarrassed by his first name (Olivia).

d.no one to fool with.

[-] Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

At least those whippersnappers will learn a little history

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago

What happens when the data in this "safety net" is breached and tons of peoples IDs get leaked? So safe.

[-] Achird@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I’m talking about network filters at the home level. Like a pinhole or nextdns. Ones the network owner is control of and can log or not log as they choose to. Parents can set up their own safety net if they choose.

I was Responding to the comment “my parents had a porn blocker” etc

I do not want some dodgy website to be collecting personal IDs that would be an obvious target and/or just get leaked accidebtly.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

I am a parent and I have decided not to worry about this stuff. Teens will look at porn and that is just a fact about our existence. I don't have to like it or approve of it or concern myself with it.

[-] Achird@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

Teenagers will. Young children though may accidentally stumble upon something nasty which is far from age appropriate and something they aren’t ready for.

Having good network controls can help with that, but so does good supervision and education about internet safety.

[-] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Mine straight up used Spyware. I learned to make multiple copies of older sessions to cover up anything I wanted, then I replaced current sessions just like they did on security cameras in the movies lol.

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