“If you don’t want people to hate you, you need to hate yourself”. Is that the message you want to send to people?

Where did they say this?? I see nothing telling anyone to hate themselves. They're saying to fight rapists and that doing so will give men a better reputation. Please explain what you mean by "need to hate yourself"

@reliv3@lemmy.world said:

[...] but for me (who is a man) that [your comment about women being cautious "giving men lasting mental health issues and extreme social anxiety"] is not how it affects me. The fact that there exists a lot of mysogonistic men doesn’t reflect on me. I am confident that I’d be one of the men who’d just leave a woman alone if we ever met in the woods, so knowing that there are a lot of men out their who wouldn’t doesn’t get me salty at the women who are fearful of them; but rather, it gets me salty at the shithead men out there who are ultimately the root of the women’s fear.

which is a based take