You don’t convince those who dont consider you human hy begging.

Correct. You start by convincing them that you're human. That's a large part of the reason that there was a very rapid sea-change in gay rights.

I say this as someone from part of a group it’s very hard to keep from voting and expects men with guns to drag me out of bed and take me to the camps any month now: [...]

As a 2A enthusiast, THIS IS WHY I'VE BEEN TELLING LGBTQ+, WOMEN, NON-WHITE PEOPLE, AND RELIGIOUS MINORITIES TO GET FUCKING ARMED FOR THE LAST DECADE. Unless and until you can build a coalition that agrees that you are human, and have rights, you need to be able to use violence as a tool to protect yourself, and your community. This is why I'm a firearms instructor, this is I offer free training to and LGBTQ+, non-white, non-christian, or non-male person that wants it.