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Finding people who vibe with you is so hard
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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
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- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
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I think the larger problem is that a huge portion of our planets current inhabitants don't know how to have a conversation. I've tried so hard to have actual conversations to go deeper than "the weather/work/kids/etc." It seems almost impossible to find someone who can not only think for themselves, but also think of something to CONTRIBUTE to the conversation.
It always goes like this (where I am from):
Me - (sees a few tattoos on their person) "I see you have some tattoos! Do they hold any special meaning to you, or did you just think they'd look good/cool? :)"
Them - "I just thought they were cool."
Literally it. In the same position, even from someone who doesn't like talking either, I would ask if the person asking about my tattoos has any. It's really as simple as that for most people, or could be, I should say.
I stopped putting so much time into trying to open doors for actual conversation a few years ago when I realized people just don't know how to talk to actual humans any more. It's fucking weird.
*I understand some people have issues with social activities, and no harm done. This is a very common thing though, and I just don't believe 90% of people who I have interacted with are those types of people, if you know what I mean?
Omg try going to sapphic spaces. So much of the time the first few questions go far deeper than you'd even had time to ever think about before.
Don't get me wrong, I don't mind, it's just such a different experience to be at a bar and get random questions about what/when the last time you experienced joy or what you hope to achieve in life.