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At your age, what surprises you the most about yourself? (lemmy.ca)

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Most of my life I have been an attentive, giving and generous man. At 60, I'm surprised at how self-centered have become.

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[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

I am similar, everyone said Oh just wait till your 30s, oh just wait till you have kids, oh just wait till your 40s but it was my 50s that the weight really did stick, and like you I am not fat by any real standard, smack dab in the middle of healthy by BMI, and probably more conventionally attractive body type with a little bit of T & A but was so attached to being skinny it is disorienting. Logically I know this size is probably healthier for my bones and I feel good and am active, but I feel like I lost part of my identity, and don't like it.

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