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First post, first time going out with fem clothes (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 week ago by SatansDaughter@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/mtf

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For some background, I came out as trans to my sister in June and last month I managed to talk about it to my parents. Two weeks ago I bought these clothes and today I wore them outside for the first. It was in a therapy group where I already came out so it wasn’t too scary, but I was still kinda stressed when I got there. Anyways I’m really happy about it

Also, unrelated but I tried to cross-post this from !trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone but apparently you can only do that with link posts on piefed. Does anyone know if there's an easier to do this other than copy and pasting the posts content ?

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[-] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 14 points 1 week ago

You look great, and I'm super jealous of your hair! It sounds like you've got decent support behind you, which is so awesome.

[-] SatansDaughter@piefed.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago

Thanks, to be fair I made sure it looked good in the picture but most of the time it's messier than that. Yeah, I'm pretty lucky that the people I talked to about it accepted pretty easily

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