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People whose parents have become fascist, how are you dealing with it?
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Don't argue with them. Don't give them facts or anything else.
Ask them questions, Let them explain themselves, they'll see it as trying to convert you or explain MAGA to you.
In the process of that, by asking the right question at the right time, they will slowly over the course of multiple years change their mind.
Eventually they'll ask you about your viewpoint and you'll know youve made it the half way point
This actually seams like a really good stratergy, I might try that.
Good luck. Logic didn't get them where they are, probably won't get them out.
I cut all magas out of my life and tell them why.
This is probably the best answer based on the stuff that I've heard.
During the first term, a local talk radio show had a woman on who grew up in a cult. She was born into it. She described her own story about how she learned what was happening and eventually got out. IIRC, her parents cut all ties with her, as that was the way of the cult. Anyhow, she described the process of "deprogramming" someone and it is basically along the same lines of what you describe.
Sadly, it's easy to "mass convert" people to cults, but deprogramming is a one on one conversation over a long period of time.