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People whose parents have become fascist, how are you dealing with it?
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Much easier said than done. Some people have a difficult time accepting that their children are adults with different opinions. My Dad still sees me as the little boy he raised, sometimes that's nice and I treasure it. Sometimes it's still the most frustrating thing in the world. I'm fortunate that my parents haven't fallen down the MAGA pipeline but they're definitely more conservative than they were 5 years ago. I couldn't educate my Dad on anything, he just doesn't see me that way. Mind you I don't have to, I'm fortunate.
My point being, for some people their relationship with their parents will never go both ways but that's okay. They're your parents and it's one of the relationships that rarely is symmetrical. My Dad is my father, I'm his son, and I've learned to accept the relationship we have (which is pretty good) rather than get upset about the few problematic beliefs he holds. For people who are not as fortunate as me, zero contact might be the answer. Sometimes it's okay to accept things that aren't perfect.