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what are some signs of being led on??
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Pretending to like someone, I think
I think I am leading her on, then. I stopped giving her gifts or showing her affection and stopped texting her as much but I still want to be in a relationship with her. I keep her along as my girlfriend but I admittedly don't do much, I don't kiss her.
Too late. She said goodbye and let me go.
Not really related, but this is one of the many reasons why I've never been able to be in a relationship. I don't feel that way about others, so faking it feels wrong to me. I went out with a guy a couple of times and felt gross doing that. So that's about it.
Sometimes it's frustrating that I can't have an intimate relationship with someone that way, but what can you do? Have to go through life with the cards you're dealt, I guess.
That kinda sounds like you're just aromantic