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A reminder to not take online negativity too seriously
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this post was submitted on 06 Sep 2025
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I think you've got to work out what your appetite for risk is. It's important to do take risks sometimes even if they scare you to move your life forward but also sometimes don't. I've seen a bunch of people really fuck their lives up because they just kept rolling the dice.
But what is "fucking your life up"? What is the end goal of life that you have to achieve, else you failed your life?
One of my goals in life is to not become impoverished due to bad financial decisions, and think of how many people quit their jobs to try to make a successful game just for their plan to not work out and them then trying to somehow get their lives back in order so they won't become homeless.
Despite this being a question for everyone to answer on their own, continuously failing risky bets and losing everything to it does not look like it will be a popular answer
But why would you even care about popularity? Right wing movements are also popular right now. I don't think popularity is any important measure at all to determine if something is right/wrong/good/bad
Not popular = nobody wants that, not because others don't want that, it's because what each will not choose on their own
Of course, your mileage may vary
When I say fucking up I mean things like spending all their savings and maxing out their credit chasing a dream. It could have all worked out for them if things had gone different, but it didn't. As a result they're a lot less happy, don't have housing security and spend a lot more of their life fighting to stay afloat - their life is worse by almost every measurable metric. It's not about failing life, but it is about minimizing your suffering.