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"Nobody would listen" yet people (not just men) don't go to therapy where someone's not only PAID to listen, but to help you challenge those cognitive distortions and apply the skills gained to heal with people that do want to listen without the payment. There's 8 billion people in the world. It's simply not true "nobody would listen or care."
Edit: 7cups.com is free.
Sure. I gotta pay just to talk to people. Love this society. I think I will just isolate for a bit like the meme says.
Therapy is not about talking to people, it's about helping you be best version of yourself. About helping you help yourself. Instead of continue doing whatever you think you're doing, with isolation and self harm and constant loathing.
You can get "Lol, grow some!" much cheaper and faster on 4chan. No need for therapy.
You can also punch yourself in the nuts completely for free, but why would you do any of that, it's the opposite of helping
That's the point. Therapists don't help. At best they do nothing, at worst they insult you.
You've never been to one, you've never even saw one at work, you only saw some weird representation at a bad tv show.
Go on, keep spitting in my face. I'm used to my problems not existing for other people including therapists. I know the drill by now.
My man, your excessive self-loathing and all the connected problems is exactly, precisely what good therapy is for.
Keep going. You're only proving my point.
We're at a point when I'm participating in your fetish, and I'm not sure I want to
Go on.
But people with your attitude is exactly what I’m talking about.
There are sliding scale agencies, some taking on clients for free. Take care.
Aaand of course you are not a man.
Can you simply accept that you may not know what other people go through?
Not all men are the same. All humans vary in life.
You don't have to be a man to understand the male experience. We're very vocal about it.
Volunteering armchair psychologist in
.world?Who really wants to know of something someone went through without it being beneficial for the victim? Are you going to commit to a gofundme?
Don't publish in a vacuum, praxis mental care, for those that really consent.
Brii Ash, wasn't doing so in insta.
In english, please?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3RlalRV4S8