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[-] InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 13 points 19 hours ago

My general guide on this:

If you didn't hear me the first time, I assume it's 100% my fault.

If you didn't hear me the second time, I assume it's 50% my fault.

If you didn't hear me the third time or there after, I assume it's 100% your fault.

[-] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 4 points 15 hours ago

I think everyone follows this guide, regardless of whether or not they speak more clearly on the repeats.

[-] myrrh@ttrpg.network 4 points 16 hours ago

...if someone asks me to repeat myself immediately, without pause, i presume they're too f*cking lazy to parse phonemes nor to respect communication as mutual effort, and move on to a better use of my time...

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago

or have a hearing disorder. congratulations on exposing yourself.

[-] myrrh@ttrpg.network 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

...i have absolutely no problem repeating myself for people who make a sincere effort at listening, which every one of my hearing-impaired friends do, including myself...people who interrupt with a 'huh?' mid-sentence, without even a moment to parse what they've heard, i reciprocate with exactly the same effort they commit to the conversation...

...social mooches are a boorish burden upon everyone around them...

[-] Dreaming_Novaling@lemmy.zip 3 points 14 hours ago

Sometimes I just take half a second longer to process what I heard, which forces me to say "can you repeat that" immediately after they talked, only to them finally have a response. It's not cause I hate you, it's cause I'm dumb or some shit that idk why it's causing it. It was really bad for me in middle school, I used to joke with my friends I'm partially deaf or smth. So like please don't be an ass, if I did wanna hear you I'd just be like "cool I guess."

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