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Don't let your perception of femininity and masculinity stop you. Don't let your expectation of other people's perception of femininity and masculinity stop you. It's all made up.
Having said that, you don't have to force yourself to enjoy something you don't enjoy. However, if you do decide to go, I would recommend to embrace it and try to find enjoyable aspects to the experience.
Ninja edit: I agree that being filmed at a concert isn't always nice. Especially because many people seem unaware that not everybody wants to be filmed.
I agree with all of this. The post is one of those many you come across and think "wow heteronormativity really makes people scared of the most normal things". But I get it, no judgement of course, it's society that needs a rewrite
I think It's because I don't really see myself as either, I struggle with both. I know it's all made up, but it's all I ever see people talk about online and that could be anyone you walk past, I mean not everybody is chronically online as others, but they still have their views.
Just the other day, some kids lost their ball in a tree, so I go over to try and help (unsuccessfully) and then a man of similar Age and height just comes over and climbs into the tree in front of these kids, and I'm just standing there looking up with them, I felt like a lesser man at that moment, and it was pointed out to me once that I seem to seek the validation of woman for some reason.
Sorry, didn't mean to get deep, but your comment got me thinking haha
A lesser man wouldn't have tried to help in the first place.
Just be yourself, dude.