Is it too early for a (21F) proposal to her? (23F) (lemmy.ml)

submitted 4 days ago by wendyz@lemmy.ml to c/lesbians

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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I want to surprise her by proposing to her and being all fancy for our hangout soon, but I don’t want to move too fast. 3 years should be fine, right??

Anyway, I’ll tell you how it goes!!

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[-] wendyz@lemmy.ml 16 points 4 days ago

A lot. We both want to move to possibly Japan together and get married. My family loves her and her family loves me.

I would not propose unless we talked about it, but she says often that she hopes we get married and that she wants to marry me.

[-] BrotherL0v3@lemmy.world 19 points 4 days ago

she says often that she hopes we get married and that she wants to marry me.

That seems like a green light to me.

[-] Zorque@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

But what if she's just nice?

[-] wendyz@lemmy.ml 5 points 4 days ago

What if she’s Canadian?

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