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those people clearly don't have kids of their own.
the mom is not "having beef" with you kid, she's lost her life and her mind and cracked.
and the dad was on his third mental breakdown that day looking for anything to rationalize why he's hyperventilating.
it was not the kids fault and any parent taking it out on their own kid is fucked, but they are not irrational monsters either.
You're making assumptions, and from the perspective of the kids the mom was indeed having beef with them and the father couldn't stand them drawing too loud regardless of their reason.
Do you think them having kids would change that perspective? Make them one day think "after having 3 mental breakdowns today, I can now see why my non-irrational parents had those continuous lapses of rationality where they took their frustrations on me"?
yes, i do. i don't doubt there are some actual abusive parents out there but many more of the conflicts between kids and their parents is caused by the kids having their child perspective. and sadly, mentally developing to the point where the understand what their parents are going through typically takes longer than it takes for the relationship to be destroyed. therefore it is mostly up to the parents to keep it together but they are just people. and their kids talking shit with other kids about them surely does not help...
I hate to say it, some people are just monsters who find happiness in other's sorrow. I'm sure some abusive parents are like you describe where they're unable to manage their stress, but from some individuals I've encountered I simply have to accept that some people are simply terrible people
you are technically right... but, i mean... comments like this are the reason why this is not a place for any serious discussion. you just have to find any crack or disambiguity to attack and destroy anyone you disagree with, don't you?