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Why exclude (edit: feminist) men? (lemmy.ml)
submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by jsomae@lemmy.ml to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
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This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you’re here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we’ve got you covered.

I feel like men can do all of those things, so I don't see why we are excluding them. Just because it's a women-centric community doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed. I think we should exclude people who are bigoted instead, or even people who just don't "get" women's issues.

Aside: I'm personally irritated that make-up is what's considered a woman-centric topic. That's kind of reductive -- not everyone is femme.

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[-] jsomae@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 months ago

It's fine. I am not insulted that you thought I was a man; I am not insecure about my gender. I'm used to people assuming I'm a man online, and I don't mind it. I prefer to avoid the harassment I get when I actively identify myself as a woman, which is why I don't put pronouns in my username.

[-] dandelion 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Having a space where you aren't harassed by men is precisely the reason for the rule to exclude men ... You shouldn't have to hide who you are to avoid harassment, you should be able to feel safe to be yourself.

[-] jsomae@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 months ago

Oh absolutely. It bothers me -- that's why I wanted to mention this here.

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