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I'm new to lemmy. Any tips or advice?
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Out of curiosity, why? I joined on lemmy.world cause it seemed like the biggest/most populated instance, but it seems to get a lot of hate and I'm not sure why.
comfy actually summs up a lot of my critcisms of the instance perfectly. In a word, it really is like everything I hated about reddit.
Yeah, I think after reading a couple replies in here I'm gonna go make an account on lemmy.ml and see how it goes. I just don't want to be account-hopping every 5 minutes or whatever, I want a place where I can get the posts I want without the bullshit. I left reddit for many of the reasons comfy mentioned, so lemmy.world does not seem to be the place for that.
Not the user you asked, but my impression is they're tolerant (or undermoderating, I'm not sure) of the kind of behaviors many of us left reddit to avoid, like flame trolling, bigotry, propaganda levels of US-centrism (and labeling anti-US-government or anti-Democrat-Party attitudes as Russian bots), anti-socialism and straight-up platforming US reactionary users like Trump/Musk supporters.
The instance takes a general lax liberalist position, and as a result, allow a sizable amount of toxic users who we don't tolerate in our communities. So some people take the easy option and just block the whole instance, unfortunately blocking a decent amount of good considerate users too.
There's also a bit of bad reputation due to the staff being far stricter on deleting support for Luigi Mangeoni, like anyone suggesting what they did was positive or appreciated. Lots of people left reddit because there were banned for the same reason. Whereas my instance (and the one this thread is on) allows me to say that, while I believe history shows PotD assassinations are not the right strategy to solve this problem and there must be a social movement surrounding direct actions, the shooter's assassination was cathartic, Brian Thompson deserved to die early and quickly, the owner-class mass media's widespread failed attempt to demonize the assassination as immoral showed clearly their values lie in opposition to the worker class (regardless of electoral alignment), and the fact that healthcare CEOs were terrorized by the event was a benefit, however small, to humanity. You would probably get a warning for saying that on lemmy.world's communities.
Thank you for taking the time to provide an in-depth answer.
I have not seen much of that, but I believe you. And yeah, I left reddit because I got temp-banned for 'advocating violence' because I said Luigi didn't deserve to go to prison for what he did. It was bullshit and got lifted on appeal, but not before I also got perma-banned for some bullshit about evading a ban with multiple accounts (I've only ever had one account in the ~14 years I was on reddit, I never even made throwaways or anything.) It was also lifted on appeal, but by that point I was pretty fed up at how fashy and trigger-happy reddit admins (not even mods) are. I didn't realize that was also a problem on lemmy.world, that's disheartening.
I am an ancom myself with what most liberals would consider some pretty spicy takes on politics so I feel like it's only a matter of time until I run afoul of the bullshit-police here too if it's that bad. Do you think it's worth making a new account on lemmy.ml (the only other instance I've even considered, but the description talks a lot about FOSS and not much about socialism/etc so I wasn't sure) and starting over? What's your opinion on other more socialist-focused instances like Hexbear (or others I may not be aware of)? Or is there some way to transfer my account? I'm still pretty new, like a couple months old, so it's not the end of the world if I have to start over, but it's kind of a pain so I'm not sure if it's worth it.
Generally agreeing with Cowbee's reply. I joined lemmy.ml years ago when it was explicitly "leftist" (as in socialist) but that's not written in the instance description anymore, and I am interested in FOSS discussion but you don't have to care about that to use the instance. This was the first instance, which was created by the two core developers who are both communists. I wanted an instance that was socialist-leaning, stable and isn't trigger-happy with defederating or regularly getting defederated, so this one is great for me.
I have mixed feelings on Hexbear, I like dropping in sometimes and some of their comms are nice, but I see them as prone to mod powertripping and the culture is (overall, not always) a bit low-effort for my liking and prone to idealism/sloganism/dogmatism. So I'm usually only using a couple of specific comms or laughing at /c/slop.
I haven't kept up with Lemmy software updates so I don't know where it's at with migrating an account. I've had a couple of different accounts simultaneously (one on an instance which died years ago, one on an interest-themed instance) rather than just having one main account. And like they said, there's little downside to abandoning an account beyond inconvenience. There's no 'karma' score shown by default, and you can re-use your username on the other accounts if your name had a reputation you want to keep.
Fair enough, thanks for your advice. And yeah even if there was karma I wouldn't give a shit; I was on reddit for more than a decade on the same account and I couldn't even tell you what ballpark my karma was in when I left cause I cared so little. Mainly the inconvenience is in rejoining all the communities I care about, but it's not that big a deal.
You're welcome :)
I just had another look at the settings options, and it looks like we can import/export account settings, including subscribed communities, blocks and saved posts. (I haven't tested this, but I can see them in the exported data file)
Holy shit you're the best, thank you!
Not who you asked, but I figured I'd pitch in. Hexbear.net has a good amount of AnComs, as long as you aren't sectarian against Marxists. It's a left unity space, it's where I have my other account. As a Marxist-Leninist, I find Hexbear is generally far more chill and less argumentative because there's a 0 tolerance rule for transphobia, bigotry, liberalism, etc.
Lemmy.ml is far more argumentative due to being more broadly federated, and isn't explicitly anti-Capitalist. I mainly stick here for outreach, not to have a good time or anything. You have more visibility sorting by all, and can access Hexbear from Lemmy.ml if you don't want to make an account on HB, though you lose access to emojis and other HB specific features, like easily accessing the Megathreads for News, General chatting, etc.
You probably wouldn't like Lemmygrad.ml, it's explicitly Marxist-Leninist and is sectarian against Anarchists. I enjoy it, though I don't have an account there. It's accessible from Hexbear.net and Lemmy.ml.
lemmy.dbzer0 is more piracy focused, and has an Anarchist bent. It's accessible from Hexbear.net and Lemmy.ml, but can't access Lemmygrad.ml.
Slpnk.net is socialisty, focused on the Solarpunk aesthetic movement. It can't access Hexbear or grad, but Lemmy.ml and dbzer0 are connected (I think dbzer0 is, at least).
My advice? Browse each locally for a week without making an account, see what sticks. There's no downside to making an account or abandoning your old one, really.
Good to know. Yeah I'm pretty chill with MLs. I enjoy debating politics (and religion and philosophy for that matter), but I see no point in getting cranky in the pants or holding a grudge or whatever about it.
I was dimly aware of Lemmygrad.ml and sorta decided to avoid it so I'll just keep doing that (also I get the impression lemmygrad is defederated on many mainstream instances.) Slpnk.net is the other one I was considering, but it seems kinda dead compared to lemmy.ml or hexbear.
Alright, I think I'll just go ahead and make an account on lemmy.ml and see how it goes. I'm already subbed to many of the communities on it and slrpnk.net and a couple on hexbear (tho I don't seem to see posts on those very often). Thank you for the advice.
No problem!