Why is the culture of hate growing on Lemmy? (programming.dev)

submitted 2 weeks ago by Tea@programming.dev to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Why are most people here are negative and rude?

Just to be clear here, I am not talking about instance, rather I am asking about the whole community.

There is no one I seen here who even had expressed any passion towards anything really.

I cannot understand how did that happen?

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[-] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

I get it too. People would rather start calling you names than have a discussion. I think it's the "with us or against us" mentality as a whole that makes people very volatile.

You sound like a reasonable person though, so I hope you don't depart.

[-] Tea@programming.dev 4 points 2 weeks ago

If I am being pretty honest with you, I thought about leaving Lemmy before due to multiple reasons+ the culture of hate here.

But I always think about the alternatives and I don't find many.

As long as there is no a better alternative to Reddit, I am staying.

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