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[-] j0ester@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

The word pedophile is so weirdly used. If an older man or lady meets a 16 year old.. their technically not one, but in this day of age.. they would be consider one to society..but they would be consider a Sex Offender. Depending on Level 1 or 2.. all depends on what they did and if their state will think they will re-offend or not. Most Level 1’s do not.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 13 points 5 days ago

It's not weirdly used. Society always determines what is appropriate. We've decided, as a society, that humans cannot consent until 18. And any sex without consent is rape.

That said, what is weird is that we conflate pedo and child rapist. You're describing child rapists.

[-] Zak@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago

We’ve decided, as a society, that humans cannot consent until 18.

Older criminal laws were based on that idea, usually called "statutory rape". Modern laws about sexual abuse of children usually ignore the concept of consent entirely to allow for more nuance.

One example of nuance is exceptions for people close in age so that non-abusive relationships between teenagers don't suddenly become crimes when someone has a birthday. Another is that consent is often a factor in the severity of the penalty.

[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Yes and that's completely fair. It's about the imbalance of power. An 18 y.o. and one day, is exactly the same as they were two days prior.

But the cutoff has to be somewhere, and the guy I was replying to was talking about proper adults and 16 y.o.

That's a highschool sophomore. And I think we'd all agree a sophomore dating a college student would be pretty imbalanced.

[-] futatorius@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago

The age of consent in many developed countries is 16.

[-] Zak@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

And I think we’d all agree a sophomore dating a college student would be pretty imbalanced.

I was a college student at 17, but I think you had a larger age difference in mind. I do think we can all agree there should be laws against adults sexually exploiting teenagers.

[-] futatorius@lemm.ee 1 points 4 days ago

consent is often a factor in the severity of the penalty

If there's no consent, it's sexual assault at a minimum and more likely rape.

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Somebody should tell society their laws need to catch up with that decision!

[-] knatschus@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 5 days ago

Your society might have in mine a 14 year old can consent and it wouldn't be considered rape in that case, still a crime though.

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