Smorty is a chill girl, and based on previous interactions with her I try to give the benefit of the doubt. I think she interpreted the gender labels as headers rather than being items on the lists. I was trying to get her to re-evaluate her response, but this is the internet and subtlety is a lost cause. I should have just expressed what my actual opinion was, in plain english, instead of trying to be clever. This isn't a dig at Smorty, but just an observation of internet culture at large. As for my actual opinion, expressed in plain english, that's the hard part, i'm bad at actually describing my opinion, so that's still in progress.