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I just lost two close relatives who were also friends today. We grew up as kids and they were about a year or two older than me. I've always been aware of death and accept it but when stuff like this happens, it's a really strong reminder of how we're all moving along in the line towards the end.

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[-] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 4 points 4 days ago

My best friend who was younger than me died 2 years ago in her mid 30s. She was an alcoholic so didn't exactly take the best care of herself. I don't have any substance abuse issues but still don't make the best choices for my health. I don't exercise much and my diet is frankly horrific. Thinking about her death in this light has made me think that I really do need to get my shir together. Thanks friend.

[-] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 days ago

I've had a few friends my age go that way as well. I think I've outlived about six of them at this point. Every single one is a reminder to me to take better care of myself and do more for those around me. We can't let them die in vain ... we can at least honour their memory by doing something for ourselves. It's not a selfish act either ... the better we take care of ourselves, the more capable we will be to help others.

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