Dad I'm starting a new job, moving and trying to buy a house.... It's hard and I'm scared. (sh.itjust.works)

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Why is this so hard? I've tried to do everything right, and I have more than most around me and I'm still struggling. I don't know if I'll be able to find a place to live.

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[-] athairmor@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

You can’t fuck it so much that you can’t recover. You’ll be fine.

And, you can always slow down. You’re taking on a lot at one time. When moving to a new area it’s worth it to rent for a while. Get to know the neighborhoods. Explore the area, meet people. Make sure the job is stable before you invest.

You got this.

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