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this post was submitted on 10 Mar 2025
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I remember going from being super excited that I owned the walls and fixtures around me to then realising I owned the walls and fixtures and no-one else was going to fix them. Not everything needs doing now though, so separate the issues into things you can live with, mid-term renovations and now things.
Oh, and always remember you’re not paying off someone else’s mortgage anymore!
That's how i deal with it.
It's not causing more damage, it can wait.
It's not someone else who's benefiting from my hard earned money