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submitted 5 months ago by drbollocks to c/rant@lemmy.sdf.org

stop trying to give me an ultimatum, saying i’ll go to hell or that we can’t be friends if i don’t pray.

if i’m uncertain that god exists because there’s NO PROOF EITHER WAY for me.

i’m not a “perfect” straight christian woman like you are, i’m not going to change myself because my looks “tempt” men. i dress for me, not for men.

i don’t CARE if same-gender relationships are “sins” and you’ll go to hell. there are some pro-lgbt churches. i don’t care if “all women are for is to complement men and they’re inferior and they should only be with other men for that reason”.

this shit makes me so mad. i don’t have to be religious if i don’t want to be. there’s this one straight christian woman i know and she hates other women it’s so annoying, and she claims to support the lgbt but “doesn’t care about gay/trans rights”.

omfg shut up, there’s some actual kind christians despite me not being one myself, but these people obviously aren’t.

if you’re genuinely curious as to whether i pray, am christian/religious, or go to church, then that’s fine, but DON’T TRY TO FORCE ME. i thought christianity preached acceptance??

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[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

The people you are talking about are not Christians. They do not follow the teachings of Jesus Christ. They are at best cafeteria Christians and at worst Christians in name only.

[-] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago

Ok, but a "Christian" is anyone who claims to be a Christian. There are no other unifying features of Christianity that make one a "True" Christian. Of course, all Christians claim to be the "True" Christians, and claim that any Christians who do not meet some arbitrary requirement aren't really Christians. All Christians have equal claim to the ideology, and this equally validates their claim to be Christians and invalidates their claims that others are not real Christians.

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Christians follow the teachings of Jesus Christ. If you don't follow the teachings of Jesus Christ but call yourself a Christian you are a Christian in name only.

[-] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Jesus Christ had a lot of teachings, one of which is that all humans are imperfect. All fall short, and let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Does that mean you aren't a Christian, since you're expecting perfection of Christians?

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Perfection, no. An effort, yes. I am an atheist and live in a country with actual religious freedom.

[-] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

I'd argue that anyone claiming to be a Christian believes they are making an effort to follow the teachings of Christ as they understand them.

I'm not sure why you think where you live is relevant, but OK.

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

If "Christians" had read and understood the Bible instead of just accepting what bad faith actors told them I bet they would probably be better Christians.

Where I live is relevant since as an atheist I have actual religious freedom which means that the Christian prohibition against judging others does not apply to me. I am free to judge that false Christians are horrible people.

[-] AoxoMoxoA@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

The problem is in understanding the bible. Christianity is an esoteric religion. A quick read is not going to get someone there. It is beyond most peoples range of knowledge. Eastern religions ( Buddhism, Hindu, etc ) make it clear that a teacher is needed to understand. In the west Christianity is a perverted false religion at this point and has been for a very long time. This has allowed for many "false Prophets" (which the same religion clearly warned against) to lead masses of people down a wrong path.

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 months ago

Might want to change the name of your religion then, because it's been mainly overtaken by evil hateful people, and you're not going to get it back.

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

I'm an atheist. Atheism is not a religion. It's the complete lack of religion.

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 months ago

I'm aware of what atheism is, thanks, sweetie.

Maybe don't talk like you know what a """real Christian""" is. I know what it is because I lived that life and am now stuck in a town where it's the majority. Fuck your pussyfooting.

Sit down.

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Does that ever work? It isn't going to work with me.

It's obvious that the loudest modern """"""""Christians"""""""" (I'm not sure what the point of all those quotation marks is but I'm just going with it) pick and choose the most hateful passages of the Old Testament to justify their own fear, hate, and self loathing.

You may not like it but it is the truth.

[-] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 1 points 5 months ago

Sorry that it hurts your feelings to know that current Christian ideology is hateful and shitty.

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It doesn't hurt my feelings. As I've said a couple of times, I live in a country with actual religious freedom where what those shitty people believe doesn't effect me in any way. Their beliefs don't prevent my gay friends from marrying and they don't prevent my wife, daughter, and female friends from making decisions about their own healthcare without interference from shitty people who don't know them.

There is a difference between pointing out that they are shitty people and having hurt feelings. It appears that the only people with hurt feelings in this conversation are those who are butt hurt because I pointed out that some modern Christians are horrible people.

[-] Blubber28@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

That's kind of the problem though - they do follow the teachings. The bible clearly states that two men who sleep together must be stoned to death, and that people are encouraged to spread these beliefs. It is true that they are ignoring the parts about being kind to other people, but at the same time, you are likely ignoring the parts that tell you that you can keep slaves as long as they are from other regions, that you cannot eat pork and shellfish, and that you must stone gay men.

This makes you absolutely a better person that the dipshits that OP is complaining about. But nevertheless, they are likely just as christian.

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

It also says in multiple places that judgement is for God, not man.

[-] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

And that adulterer should be stoned to death. Bring Trump and I'll bring the stones?

That defiant daughters should be stoned to death.

That the babies of your enemies should be killed by bashing their heads on rocks.

We have moved past those barbaric religious practices as a society.

The opposite of progressive is not conservative. The opposite of progressive is regressive. Backwards. They are backwards.

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