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How can people so mean?
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I replied with "well, its just me I suppose", but I guess misplayed "one year older lol", anyway, thanks! I will just think it was some sort of shitpost and move on and just not talk there if its not necessary. I feel like a snowflake for being bothered by this lol
Eh it bothers us too, but as you go through college you'll realize more and more that unlike grade school you don't need to care about other people's opinions. That person is just a dick and make it very obvious, so you know you don't want to spend time with them. Vs high school where you're more or less forced into close quarters with them daily.
I think that's one of those skills that we adults just pick up slowly, not giving a shit. I remember being your age and being the same way, I was personally very emotional and took things very personally. As I grew up I guess I just learned with experience to not care. It's a skill we all kind of learn, it's just not very fun learning it.
I see, cool! 💜
Also I saw your account is only 2 says old, assuming it isn't an alt for another, welcome!
Thanks! Switched from Reddit to Lemmy recently