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Throughout 2024, the Guardian aimed to report on every woman allegedly killed by a man, drawing on the work of campaigns such as Counting Dead Women, the Femicide Census and Killed Women.

In recent years in the UK, a woman has been killed by a man every three days on average, yet most of their stories have gone unheard. The Guardian wants to help change that.

This year, the toll of women whose deaths have led to a man being charged has reached 80. Here, we mark each of their lives.

None of these incidents are linked in any way other than that a woman has been killed and a man charged in connection with her death.

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[-] TheBananaKing@lemmy.world 35 points 1 week ago

How many men were killed in the same period?

[-] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago

Oh hush, thats a whattaboutism and you know it.

[-] JustARaccoon@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago

It shouldn't discredit the women's deaths, but we do live in a climate where men are seen exclusively as current and temporarily embarrassed perpetrators, and less so as fellow victims.

[-] lennybird@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

we do live in a climate where men are seen exclusively as current and temporarily embarrassed perpetrators, and less so as fellow victims.

All due respect, but where is your evidence because the way I see it is this (male here btw):

  • Men perpetrate the vast majority of homicides.
  • Men overwhelmingly control the vast majority of wealth and power positions, globally.
  • Men are responsible for the vast majority of wars throughout history.
  • Men are responsible for the majority of physical domestic violence cases — particularly those leading to homicide.
  • Is there anywhere in the world where men are oppressed by women the way women are in, say, Afghanistan or Iran or Russia (legalized domestic violence)?

The data in the UK probably doesn't exist because the instances are that much more rare. I'm open to being wrong, but until numbers are brought to the table, we're talking data vs. speculation. What we do know is that Men account for 85-95% of convicted homicides, globally, making an outsized number relative to the portion that they are victims (somewhere around 75%). Of this subset, the most rare scenario is a male victim and female perpetrator.

There are of course instances of women murdering men and those should not be downplayed; but let's neither invoke a false equivalence fallacy.

[-] Alexstarfire@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

No one said they were oppressed. They said men can also be victims.

[-] lennybird@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Of course. It's just a curious comment section that shifts to a falsely equivalent whataboutism fallacy when the subject-matter at hand given the submission is a very present and documented danger. I of course would not be opposed to anyone submitting data that they or someone else gathers for male victims of female perpetrators, too.

[-] barsoap@lemm.ee 4 points 6 days ago

According to data I shouldn't be getting into any relationship with a woman because they're the leading perpetrators of psychological violence. I could be driven into depression, into suicide, even to be physically violent.

Can we please the fuck stop weaponising the behaviour of assclowns. On either side.

[-] FourPacketsOfPeanuts@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

You realise a campaign like the guardians only starts because someone literally says "but what about the women?"

[-] land@lemmy.ml 19 points 1 week ago

Sadly men don’t matter

[-] porous_grey_matter@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 week ago

How many men were killed by women in the same time period?

[-] Kbobabob@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago
[-] TheBananaKing@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

So why the fuck isn't the story that seven times as many men get killed?

[-] JeeBaiChow@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

As a man I'm deeply troubled that it's not safe for me to go out anymore. More protections for the male gender, thanks!

[-] Anivia@feddit.org 11 points 1 week ago

Because that isn't the case? The article doesn't state 80 women were killed in total, but that 80 women were killed allegedly by men. So the total amount of killed women is higher than 80

[-] spongebue@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

I would be curious to know the cross-gender numbers. How many men killed women and vice versa? I would imagine there's a pretty big imbalance there* but would want to see the numbers instead of my own feelings. That very well could tell a story.

* to be clear, I'm a man and not the kind who thinks that all men are predators or whatever. What I said above was based on the fact that here in the US, the overwhelming majority of school shootings are committed by men and there are easy to find numbers to back it up. But that doesn't necessarily apply to overall killings by adults in another country.

[-] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

That doesn’t solve anything. This is not a competition. If we’re discussing this issue in good faith then we should be trying to dig deeper into the root causes rather than just tallying up the scores.

I think it’s pretty firmly established scientifically that men are a lot more violent and dangerous than women. We tend to have a lot larger muscle mass and higher bone density as well as higher propensity for violent aggression.

However I think it’s also pretty firmly established that, although by far most of the violent crimes are committed by men, by far most men never commit a violent crime of any sort. So what we’re actually dealing with is a small percentage of all men who commit nearly all violent crimes.

So then what are we to do about it? We need to find ways to detect these men (men with a high propensity for violent aggression) and intervene to help steer them away from aggression, to better manage their anger, or to otherwise find ways to mitigate their risk of offending.

[-] spongebue@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Fair points, but my comment was in light of all the "but more men are getting killed!" comments. The victim's gender without context isn't a very interesting data point to me, but it could very well be if you combine it with something else like the gender of the killer.

[-] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

It’s not really any more interesting. We’re never going to see an epidemic of women killing each other. There’s no all-female gangs out there that I know of. The most common female-on-female violence is high school bullying.

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