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[-] ElectroLisa 14 points 1 week ago

196 is just a community hosted on Blahaj, it's rule is "post something before you leave" which is why all the posts on it have "rule" in the title.

The "drama" comes from the Blahaj.zone instance

[-] erotador 5 points 1 week ago

ahh so 196 is a blahaj zone community then? then is has to follow general blahaj zone rules right?

[-] ElectroLisa 9 points 1 week ago

Yes, however bans in question were handed out by instance admins iirc

[-] erotador 11 points 1 week ago

then I don't get what the problem is, the admins make the rules for their instance, communities in those instances follow those rules, if not they can move to other instances, see the star trek communities for examples. the admins are making a hard stance on this issue and have the right to enforce the rules they state they will enforce.

[-] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 11 points 1 week ago

Just like people have a right to come to this community and say they think it’s a silly rule. We all are within our rights, hooray.

[-] erotador 8 points 1 week ago

so if we are all within our rights then the admins were justified with their bans , I'm glad you agree.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

"Within their rights" and "justified" are not the same thing.

[-] erotador 5 points 1 week ago

so somebody who has right is not justified when exercising those rights? like whats your point here? the admins make the rules, they say they will enforce the rules, its entirely within their rights to do it, and people get upset when they do it? if you dont like it then go somewhere else, theres other trans spaces on lemmy, try beehaw, or make your own. i swear your all acting like children who dont want to get told no, nobody is making you interact with these people or this space, your choosing to do so, why does it matter so much to you?

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

so somebody who has right is not justified when exercising those rights?

Yeah, like how one has a right to freedom of speech, but that doesn't make it right to spread rumors.

nobody is making you interact with these people or this space, your choosing to do so, why does it matter so much to you?

Like, this is literally the triggering event that caused me to leave Blahaj, that's exactly what I'm doing. I don't know why complaining about something that I feel is absurd is such a deep offense to you.

[-] erotador 5 points 1 week ago

you don't have the right to do something intentionally malicious, and spreading rumours is malicious.

and if your leaving then why spend time getting upset over it taking to people like me? send like a waste of time to me.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

you don’t have the right to do something intentionally malicious, and spreading rumours is malicious.

Not everyone sees spreading rumors as malicious. In any case, surely you see the point that 'rights' as in 'what someone is allowed to do' and 'right' as in 'what is just, moral, or upstanding' are not synonymous now.

and if your leaving then why spend time getting upset over it taking to people like me? send like a waste of time to me.

I'm bitching about it on a comm for bitching about moderators. I didn't think this was complex, but apparently, that's too much to parse.

[-] erotador 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

rights are something you have as a person, they can't be taken away, and grant you privilege to do things without question or interference. that does not mean people won't try to infringe upon them however. you dont't have rights to hurt or infringe upon others rights.

rights are not "what your allowed to do" or synonymous with things like the law. if you need to expressly be given permission for any act then it isn't inherently a right, and instead defined by social contact, and that changes depending on the society and the individuals place in it. I think you think I'm referring to social contact as per your example of spreading rumours, and perceiving the act as moral or not.

also it's funny just to watch you complain. cry harder you didn't get your way.

[-] ElectroLisa 6 points 1 week ago

People question the validity of those rules, to my understanding that's where the drama begun. There's an individual who refers to themselves with other pronouns than "I" (ex. they don't say "I went elsewhere" but "word went elsewhere") and people think it's a troll.

[-] erotador 5 points 1 week ago

neopronouns have been a issue of discussion for a long time on blahaj zone. multiple people have been caused discussions over the history of the instance, many discussions exactly like the earlier one. the admin said themselves that the recent post was not spurred by any incidents or individuals in particular, and the instance has always moderated in this way, long before this incident. it has repeatedly been stated that neopronouns are the norm, accepted, and protected on blahaj zone. most of the people who are complaining are not from blahaj zone anyways.

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

the admin said themselves that the recent post was not spurred by any incidents or individuals in particular,

I’ve been waiting until after Christmas day to make this post, but some of our communities recently have had a lot of noise and upset over someone that uses neopronouns that most people are unfamiliar with.

this post was submitted on 28 Dec 2024
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