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[-] AddLemmus@lemmy.ml 105 points 1 month ago

Also annoying though are people who think they "get it", stop listening and be interruptive after a few words, and totally miss the crucial part that comes later.

Other neurodivergent people are hard to hang out with, except for sharing our grievances in memes :-)

[-] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 1 month ago

I find that ND peeps are much easier to get along with.

[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@sh.itjust.works 30 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Yeah i have realized all my friends thru the years are some kinna ND. I didn't plan it that way obviously. We NDs tend to find each other naturally

[-] wendrul@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

Just like stand users!

[-] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago

crucial part that comes later.

Put the crucial parts first, before the fluff.

[-] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Sometimes context is important!

Or

Context is important sometimes! (If you want the point first)

[-] Nyxon@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

That is a beautiful bit of word play there to show a point succinctly. Love it, well done!

[-] Szyler@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

The word play, Love that! Succinct point put beautifully. Well done!

[-] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

If you are going to make a long winded statement, its not crazy to preface it with something.

[-] Robust_Mirror@aussie.zone 0 points 1 month ago

But then they think they heard the only important part already and miss the context which equally matters.

[-] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

Its not prefacing it with a summary, its letting them know you have a point at the end they should wait for.

I actually prefer the type of conversation that goes back and forth and tangents, but there is a place for more long form cohesive ideas, and you should wait to hear it all before speaking.

[-] Lev_Astov@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

Yes, this is a serious problem with some people. Far worse than OP's issue.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

There is a whole house of people I know like that. I visited for Labor Day, and people were constantly talking over each other. They wonder why I don't visit too often anymore.

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