[-] the_square@piefed.social 5 points 1 month ago

Thank you for rising this question. I edited the post.

I built this as a solo passion project using standard free-tier hobby tools, but I completely respect your focus on privacy. If people end up finding the tool useful, I’m definitely open to migrating it to a self-hosted or privacy-first backend in the future.

[-] the_square@piefed.social 21 points 1 month ago

Thank you for rising this question. I edited the post.

I built this as a solo passion project using standard free-tier hobby tools, but I completely respect your focus on privacy. If people end up finding the tool useful, I’m definitely open to migrating it to a self-hosted or privacy-first backend in the future.

[-] the_square@piefed.social 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Thank you both for rising this question. I will edit the post.

I built this as a solo passion project using standard free-tier hobby tools, but I completely respect your focus on privacy. If people end up finding the tool useful, I’m definitely open to migrating it to a self-hosted or privacy-first backend in the future.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by the_square@piefed.social to c/adhd@lemmy.world

Hey everyone,

I wanted to share a project I’ve been working on called Social Battery. I shared it in a mental health space a while ago, and a few people with ADHD mentioned it could be really helpful for managing social burnout and executive dysfunction, so I thought I’d post it here too.

I often run out of social energy, and I wanted a way to let people know where I'm at without the dread of explaining myself every single time.

It's completely free, there are no ads, and you don't even need an email to sign up (just a username and password). I don't collect, sell, or use any personal data, and there are no marketing trackers. However, because I built this as a solo hobby project using free-tier tools, the infrastructure relies on Vercel for hosting and Google's Firebase for the database, which do standard server-side logging. I just want to be upfront about that for the privacy-conscious folks here!

What it does and how it works:

Real-time energy sharing: You update your battery level, and friends you connect with can see it instantly. No guessing games.
Anonymous Buddies: If you don't want to share with your friends, you can pair up with an anonymous user to keep an eye on each other’s energy and offer quiet support. Sometimes it can be comforting just to know that someone else is feeling the exact same way as you.

Weekly Vibes: It charts your levels over the week so you can actually notice patterns in when you usually crash.
Nudges and streaks: There’s an optional daily reminder to help you check in with yourself (easy to forget otherwise) and a streak counter if you like that kind of dopamine kick.
Home screen shortcut (PWA): You can install it straight to your phone screen, like a real app, so it doesn't get lost in your 50 open browser tabs.
The "Coffee?" button: A quick way to nudge a friend when you're both actually feeling social, skipping the exhausting back-and-forth planning.

I’m just trying to see if this is a tool that actually resonates with people or helps make socializing a bit less overwhelming. Would love to hear your thoughts or any feedback on it!

Link: [https://socialbattery.space/]

[-] the_square@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Hey everyone! Just a quick heads-up if you're interested: I’ve just rolled out a small update to the app! ✨

  1. **Anonymous Buddies: ** You can now connect with another completely anonymous user, so you can keep an eye on each other's social energy levels and support each other.
  2. **Weekly Vibes: ** Added a handy weekly chart that shows your average social battery for every day of the week. 📊
  3. Daily Nudge : Introduced a daily notification option to give you a quick reminder to update your level. It's totally optional, just there if you need it! 🔔
  4. Streak Counter : Added a daily streak counter to help you keep your momentum going! 🔥
  5. Easy Install : Added a neat "Install PWA" button right on the interface. You can now save it like a native app with a quick shortcut on your home screen, so you don't have to open your web browser every time. 📱
[-] the_square@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago

I totally understand your concerns - to be honest, I share that same mistrust of how things work online these days. That’s exactly why I built this to be as anonymous as possible, with no data collection at all.

You’re right that I need to be more upfront, though. I’ll take your advice and be much more precise in explaining the mechanics next time so people know exactly what they’re getting into. Really appreciate the feedback and for taking a chance on it anyway!

[-] the_square@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago

Thanks! People need to sign up to see battery levels, but it's completely anonymous - no email or personal data required. Just pick a username and password, that's it. The signup is there to keep the friend connections private and prevent random internet people from seeing your status.

[-] the_square@piefed.social 4 points 2 months ago

Thank you! Really glad it resonates with you - the AuDHD community was actually one of the main groups I had in mind while building this. The "likelihood of plans falling through" thing is so real.

The busy/available toggle is a great idea. I can see how battery level ≠ availability (you might be recharged but already committed, or drained but still down for the right person). Adding that to the roadmap! Let me know how it works for you if you end up using it.

[-] the_square@piefed.social 8 points 2 months ago

Good questions! And thanks for sharing your experience here. Much appreciated.

Here's how it works:

  1. Offline status: Right now, friends see your last set level indefinitely. No timeout yet, but you're right that an "offline/last seen X hours ago" indicator would be useful - adding that to the list.

  2. Nickname privacy: Yeah, the username is in the share link by design. The nickname is more for personalization (some people prefer going by a different name with friends) rather than privacy. Per-friend nicknames is an interesting idea though.

3.Keeping it updated: Fair concern. I'm betting people who actually need this will keep it current. But it is homework to do, for me as well. I'm thinking about the notification option, though I don't want to be too intrusive in a world of constant popup notifications. The key is finding the right balance.

Thanks for the detailed breakdown of the flow, super helpful for people deciding whether to try it. I didn't post it myself as I thought it would spoil the experience of discovering something new and fun.

[-] the_square@piefed.social 4 points 2 months ago

Glad to hear it! Hope the tool helps, I'm looking forward to connecting on that space. 😊

[-] the_square@piefed.social 4 points 2 months ago

I totally get that, it's often the hardest part. If you’d like, I’d be happy to connect so you can test it out and see if it works for you! Here is my link: https://socialbattery.space/?ref=wizard

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by the_square@piefed.social to c/technology@lemmy.world

We talk less and less about how we're actually feeling, everyone just says "I'm fine" even when they're not. So I built a tool to make social energy levels visible between friends without needing the conversation.

Tech highlights:

  • No email signup (just username + password)
  • Instant friend pairing via shareable links
  • Real-time status sync
  • Mobile-first PWA design
  • Quick action buttons (e.g., "ask for coffee")

How it works:
You share your link → they open it and register → you're automatically friends and can see each other's battery levels in real time.

Live at socialbattery.space (works best on mobile, but desktop works too)
Built this because emotional state sharing shouldn't require a vulnerable conversation every time. Would love feedback from the community.

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I realized we don't really talk about our social energy levels with friends, even though it affects whether we're up for hanging out or need some space. So I built Social Battery to make it visible:

=> Share a link with friends
=> They sign up (username + password, no email)
=> You can see each other's social battery levels in real time
=> Quick "coffee?" button when you're both feeling social

It's a way to show how you're feeling without having to explain it every time.
Free, mobile-friendly: socialbattery.space
Would love to know if this resonates with anyone!

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Hi everyone! (piefed.social)

I’ve just moved over from Reddit after a pretty rough experience there. I’m looking for a friendlier space and would love any tips on how to integrate quickly and make the most of this community.

Happy to be here!

the_square

joined 3 months ago