Missed the chance to call it Jelloseerr

It's Jellover now

If both your Jellyfin server and your siblings are behind residential CGNAT, then high chance your connections are relayed through Tailscale's DERP servers. You can check with tailscale ping-ing your sibilings' nodes.

If this is the case, you may consider selfhosting your own DERP somewhere close to you, but I'd argue the performance gains are minimal compared to the extra costs. Another solution would be to enable IPv6 for both you and your siblings, skipping NAT traversal. I just hope both ISPs support it and support it properly in $CURRENT_YEAR.

This is all assuming you can direct play (i.e. not transcoding) your media. If you're transcoding, then it's good to look into hardware acceleration like the other comment mentioned, too

• DNS adjustments aren't needed if you do .well-known delegations which is easier
• Can recommend continuwuity, it runs much better on less resources. Lacks certain features compared to Synapse but overall good
• Notifications (and read markers) depend on client-specific black magic to work
• Federation do sometimes silent-fail completely, you can reset continuwuity's cache + restart when that happens. But full room history convergence needs patience
• Don't join large rooms unless your server can handle the load
• Don't host public rooms without modbots

The many small bugs make Matrix still bad - I wouldn't recommend a non-tech user unless accompanied by a 24/7 admin. It is trying to improve but very slow because of reasons

Should've specifically asked the operators/hosters if they need a better answer. But this has more engagement so

Worth noting that there's an open issue to support Wireguard peers into Headscale, so you could use it with e.g. a wg0.conf file from a commercial VPN

If you can selfhost and can use containers/docker, I wanna shamelessly plugin my solution: https://github.com/stratself/tswg. Basically mount a WireGuard config from Nord or any upstream VPN, and the container will tunnel traffic to said VPN when you choose it as an exit node.

There are other gluetun + tailscale solutions that are worth a look too

Thanks for the guide. How did you get the VPN forwarded port? I believe this depends on the VPN provider's software?

Let's Encrypt are rolling out IP-based certs, you may wanna follow its development. I'm not sure if it could be used for your forwarded VPN port, but it'd be nice anyhow

Edit: I believe encryption helps prevent tampering the data between the server and user too. It should prevent for example, someone MITM the connection and injecting malicious content that tells the user to download malware

I've poked around Homarr's setup a bit, and it seems like it can run rootless after a few tweaks!

For anyone interested, I've written a POC and feature request here - https://github.com/homarr-labs/homarr/issues/3913

Hope it can be officially supported

Thanks for the advice. I'm already using podman rootless with custom subuid/subgid, which should achieve the same thing

Owncloud had a rewrite called oCIS (Owncloud Infinite Scale). Then it was bought by Kiteworks. Then many of the core devs switched to a new product/company called Opencloud. There's been quite some history over the past few years

Hey, glad you got it working. I'm late to the party, but I got a similar solution here: https://github.com/stratself/tswg. Basically just mounts your own wg.conf to the container and get Tailscale connected over it

Since Wireguard is peer-to-peer, I suppose the "intended" way is to install Tailscale on every client. But it is possible to use the router as a VPN gateway as per this [OpenWRT guide])https://openwrt.org/docs/guide-user/services/vpn/tailscale/start#force_lan_traffic_to_route_through_exit_node). Hope you get it working anyhow