For breakfast, 1 serving honey from the jar and 1 serving apple butter also from the jar. Lunch will be every pepperoni in the house. Dinner is handfuls of shredded cheese paired with a few bites of a raw carrot and frozen cookie dough for dessert.
You've got it right. I appreciate the directiness of the forum moderator because it was a clear signal to me that the Arch community doesn't value my experience at the level I would like.
Supporting iMacs for 8 years taught me Apple doesn't value my experience either. I'm happy to upend my system and workflow if it means I'm a step closer to living in the world I want to exist. Most of my life is chosen for me so I want the decisions I have control over to be meaningful to me.
I'd like to be able to take it all in but I can go weeks without the energy or interest to read a wall of text. Other times I'll start an update and lose interest while it downloads. I realize these are personal problems but that's why I value custom tools like Linux I can adapt to my needs and shortfalls.
You just gave me words for something that was previously just vague internal grumbling and emotions.
Manjaro knows how to aesthetically please me with their color choices and background art. I've got a negative impression from various podcasts and forum posts but I'm realizing I need to look into that more because I can't recall specifics besides something about a past issue with package distribution.
Thanks for the suggestion. I enjoyed how much I learned from picking out packages to get Arch working. I'm getting a similar excitement reading about Gentoo use flags. Giving it serious consideration.
It's more like they expect you to do more reading than I would like to do. If I had been reading more of what they would like, I would have known I was expected to make a decision before updating and install an additional package. So from that view, they didn't push a breaking update.
You can't have a dialogue or discussion with a search engine. Getting an answer is a use for asking a question but not all possible uses.
Maybe the way you feel has about this is because there are countless options for places to leave this advice for other people but you decided to put it in a thread where OP is obviously struggling and already past the point where the advice would apply? Dude is in serious need of some urgent empathy and he gets this this tut-tuting combined with making an example of him for the class or something.
It feels like everything is a tradeoff and I think a setup like this reduces the complexity for people you share with.
If you added fail2ban along with alert email/notifications you could have a chance to react if you were ever targeted for a brute force attempt. Jellyfin docs talk about setting this up for anyone interested.
Blocking IP segments based on geography of countries you don't expect connections from adds the cost of a VPN for malicious actors in those areas.
Giving Jellyfin its own VLAN on your network could help limit exposure to your other services and devices if you experience a 0day or are otherwise compromised.
If you knew someone else was having the same experience as you, would you feel hate for them when they're not able to get their shit done? If the answer is no then maybe knowing that can help relieve some of the self hate you're feeling over your circumstances.
I suspect you may even feel inclined to provide empathy and support for the person having the same experiences as you. If that's true, then you know people having your experience deserve empathy and support. You're one of the people having those experiences so you're deserving of the same as others!
Because the regular cheese was the snacking cheeses and I ate the last of it days ago. Keep forgetting to stop at the store on the way home so now I'm surviving on ingredient cheese.