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Any relationship Advice? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 18 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) by exupulosion@sh.itjust.works to c/autism@lemmy.world

All my life I was struggling maintaining friendships and closer meaningful relationships, me and my partner only had abusive (physically, too) relationships before we met each other.

The problem is, I probably have bipolar and autism. They have ADHD. We both also have depression. Some days I have manic episode, some are full of apathy and the third type of days is "easy agitation and anger in general".

On days when I'm apathetic or angry-ish I try to not create a situation when something might fail etc. But I forget to say "please" and "thank you" to my partner verbally and it always results in them bursting into hatred and afterwards, tears. I try to rationalise that the wording itself is not important to me and I can't understand why would it be important to them, why won't they just accept that some days with me are better without any confrontation? They insist I'm the abuser because I do not try to understand them, even though I do try. I tried time and time again to memorise and get a habit of using soft language when asking them for anything. But this situation always repeats itself. Like I'm in a limbo.

I think it's called social intelligence? The thing I do lack and why I'm less concerned about the wording of things. It's like I can't remember what topics I can or cannot talk about with a specific person or what triggers they have. It's driving us nuts.

Edit:grammar

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago

Thanks for understanding ❤️

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 days ago

🐶 smoke weed everyday

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 49 points 2 days ago

No ai used for the picture +69 charisma 😍

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago

By buying this game you sponsor russian invading forces in Ukraine

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 19 points 3 days ago

LLM is the worst buzkill, even if you're a girl 🤢

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submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by exupulosion@sh.itjust.works to c/progressivepolitics@lemmy.world

Leaders of Young Republican groups throughout the country worried what would happen if their Telegram chat ever got leaked, but they kept typing anyway.

Edit: removed 'nsfw' tag as suggested, for better exposure

Archived just in case:

spoilerhttps://web.archive.org/web/20251014174833/https://www.politico.com/news/2025/10/14/private-chat-among-young-gop-club-members-00592146

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

What is there to celebrate. North Korea uses Linux, it does not mean a thing

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 0 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

In most oem roms it's an option, but in other aspects they tend to be worse than google's walled garden even. From what I can remember Samsung and Oppo/Oneplus/Vivo/Realme have ability to change fonts but I wouldn't put my trust and money in any of them

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

The upcoming deus ex remastered is bound to be shite, thanks to aspyr.

Funnily enough deus ex human revolution director's cut is also worse than the original HR, they added a story dlc in the middle of the game stripping you out of your progression and items, not to mention it ruins the pacing horribly. Yellow filter was also removed in directors cut but can be added and fixed through a mod

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

lemmy.ml is a 🚩🚩🚩(red) flag, remember kids

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

I hope I'll manager to pull off the vault suit from Fallout

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago

In the US and some other counties you can't even get employed without Facebook account or sell your things after moving out, I won't call using Facebook a choice in such cases, people are forced into it

[-] exupulosion@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

NTFS shat itself on newly bought hard drive, from what I remember in event viewer it said something about filesystem corruption. My steam library of 500+ GBs was gone, as well as my ripped music collection (at least I had that copied to my phone beforehead)

In other instance, a family computer. It was late 2023 and some buggy update happened that made start menu and taskbar unusable. Not clickable at all, couldn't hide it either. Numeruous throubleshooting attempts later not even update supposed to fix the issue worked. I caved for linux for this PC too

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