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Waiting for dinner (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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Lynx spider on an allium bud (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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At first I thought my LC was dead because the bag didn't appear to be doing anything a couple weeks after inoculation. Kept it anyway since it didn't seem to be contaminating, and it was alive after all! I don't have an incubator so the cooler temp of my house during the early spring is probably why it took so long to get going. Planted little handful size pockets of grain spawn throughout one of my grow beds, about 4 or 5 inches deep and 6 to 8 inches apart. Later this week I will be putting in the companion plants (tomatoes, peppers, onions, cucumbers, squash, and some flowers for attracting pollinators). Hopefully an update will come later this summer if I get any fruiting bodies!

[-] WeirdyTrip 27 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Girl, I am saying this with so much love and compassion for you- any person who is worried about body count is not worth your time. Him asking alone would be enough of a red flag for me that I would be telling him we're done if I were in your shoes. And then when he hears 5, he is sobbing? Massive red flag, I don't care how nice he may seem, he is not mature enough to be in a relationship and you deserve better.

Sex is just a thing that two consenting adults can do, you having sex before you met him is nothing to be ashamed of, especially if you are practicing safe sex. It's also pretty unhealthy for you to take on the burden of his shame over your sexual life. If you were able to get him to come back, I fear his jealousy and insecurity would be riddled throughout your relationship. I spent all of my 20's in relationships with insecure men (I am a cishet woman) and I want to try to advise you against making a similar mistake. I could have been enjoying those ten years either on my own, or trying to find someone who really valued me. But instead I took on their problems and when I look back on my twenties I SO FUCKING WISH I had broken up with those men sooner (it was 2 long term relationships, one was 6 years, the other was ~3.5 years). I don't know how old you are, but I get a young vibe and I just want you to know that you will find someone who sees your beauty and isn't worried about such trivial things. "Forced love the worst love, throw that shit in the can." -a line from YBN Cordae's song Family Matters https://youtu.be/j8Xg0Y60Tr4

As for messaging people for money and some of the concerns about breaking his trust (as well as being accosted by online horndogs), the best you can do is learn from that outcome. I am not going to shit on people who sell companionship, whether that's just chatting, pics, or otherwise, but as you have found, men online who engage in this trade are dick pic machines. My personal takeaway is that whatever money you made was not worth the stress and the damage it wrought in your personal life. I won't, and can't, tell you not to do it, but to me it doesn't seem worth it.

Take care of yourself first and foremost, and know your value 💖

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V cozy (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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TOOL - Pneuma (youtu.be)
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Lil extra: Danny Carey drum camera live performance, fucking brutal https://youtu.be/FssULNGSZIA

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Lil extra for the music video appreciators, a stylized rendition of the song: https://youtu.be/cwESiisp27U

[-] WeirdyTrip 15 points 5 months ago

I feel like I am the only person who CAN'T see the counter clockwise spin. Have tried all the tricks people suggest to make the spin reverse, still only clockwise. I feel robbed by my own brain. I WANNA SEE THE COOL SHIT, BRAIN, JUST LET ME SEE HER SPIN THE OTHER WAY (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻

[-] WeirdyTrip 36 points 5 months ago

Jfc that thumbnail of Huffman's face triggered me. How did he manage to make his face look MORE punchable??

[-] WeirdyTrip 15 points 5 months ago

Also not a sports fan, but a family member told me I had to watch the halftime performance and I'm glad they told me, lol

Drake didn't really do anything (besides his base level of being a pedo creep), Kendrick just used the platform to roast him again. It was beautiful.

[-] WeirdyTrip 25 points 5 months ago

It's the face when you know what kind of opportunity you have, come up with the absolute best use for that opportunity, and execute that plan to perfection. Bravo, Kendrick 👏

[-] WeirdyTrip 36 points 6 months ago
[-] WeirdyTrip 15 points 6 months ago

Mood. There was a time I was standing in line at the post office and some haggard looking mother was doing her best to calmly reign in her child who was busy running away from her, screeching and pulling over every display he could reach, and having zero regard for anyone else in the vicinity. I could see her exhaustion and I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I usually just grit my teeth and try to ignore it until I can escape, but this time I cut off the kids path when he got close, said "Stop" in the harshest tone I could muster, and ngl was pretty pleased with myself when he went crying to his mom. I did realize in that moment, tho, that I probably shouldn't have kids.

[-] WeirdyTrip 14 points 6 months ago

Already blocked lemmy.world's 196. Sad to see Moss make 196 jump ship, but if what's important to Moss is visibility to as many instances as possible at the expense of user experience, then I don't think we need that community here anyway. We can always revive ours, or make a new one c:

[-] WeirdyTrip 25 points 7 months ago

Holy shit I need this in sticker form so I can slap it on every vehicle with a MAGA sticker in my town.

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