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Could I be bi? (thelemmy.club)

I find both men and women attractive in their own ways, but I could never see myself dating a woman. I want a boyfriend. I don't look at romance games or stories where the protagonist romances a girl either because it's not relatable to me. Only men. Do I just prefer men or am I just straight?

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I bullied him back when he was in the closet/a girl in high school for being nerdy. As we grew up, we became friends and I discovered he was a guy now. He’s pretty cool :)

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 4 points 3 weeks ago

I'm sure it will. I'm now friends with the girl I bullied in high school, who is a trans man now.

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 8 points 3 weeks ago

She said we probably wouldn't talk for a while and she needs to process things, but she understands

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 5 points 3 weeks ago

It was very good, thanks so much. She said we probably wouldn't talk for a while as she processes the breakup

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 10 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Thank you! Maybe,

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel. Remember that as you continue your journey, though, I'll be here as your friend to support you.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 8 points 4 weeks ago

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 9 points 4 weeks ago

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 4 points 4 weeks ago

Thank you. I'll try to be gentle

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 6 points 4 weeks ago

Thanks so much, I will update you tomorrow!!

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 10 points 4 weeks ago

Thank you, I'll tell her.

[-] FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club 8 points 4 weeks ago

I'll tell her, TYSM

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submitted 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) by FelizTheCat@thelemmy.club to c/relationship_advice@lemmy.world

I'm not really into trans people, so I only date cis men. Not trans men, not nonbinary people, and not women of any kind. However, my former boyfriend is now my girlfriend, and IDK how to tell her I don't like women without her taking it the wrong way.

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E πŸ™‚

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