You guys live in Echo chambers. You just assume that your problems and solutions are universality accepted. I don't think using word pussy is wrong. because of common usage as coward, second even if pussy means women are not courageous as men. which i think is true; very rarely saw women showing uprightness, valour or taking risks, Never heard of a story where woman did suicide assassination like killing VIP with explosions and lack of courage is accepted as woman's trait in multiple cultures. I think telling otherwise is a lie. People made word unmanliness
for a reason, are you guys going to replace its usage from all books? If you think it is not lie, then you should make your case instead of pushing propaganda without properly examining and expecting that people from other cultures are going to accept your so called misogyny bullshit.
and I did not complained because I wanted sympathy, I did because I don't want them to get away with it without experiencing some backlash
You got opportunity here to tame him, ask him what makes one alpha?, then convince him that you are one or at least superior than him. Then, you will unlock ability to demand more share in things like food and money. But he looks like person who just argues.