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I'm really worried about the state of the US despite being a white male who was I'll coast right through it. I'll also accept "I don't" and "very poorly" as answers

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[-] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

life is temporary.

im hangin on to the ride until i get thrown off. its my only shot, even if it sucks donkey balls

i guess my answer would be 'dont sweat the small stuff. its all small stuff'

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[-] quams69@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

I'm getting a vasectomy and I drink, cheers m8

[-] user91@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Have a read of Factfulness. It'll provide, amongst other things, lovely visualizations to demonstrate that's not actually true.

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[-] endhits@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Got news for you, if you're working class, being white or male will not let you "coast right through" the inevitable boom/bust cycles that will befall the economies. You'll be under the boot like everyone else.

[-] skybreaker@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Stop watching the news. The world is getting better. Daily news would have you believe otherwise.

[-] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 8 points 1 year ago

Title mentions the world.

Body worries about the US.

Nice US defaultism.

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[-] Fizz@lemmy.nz 8 points 1 year ago

I focus on the areas I can impact. So far that's going OK. As for the state of the world I tell myself that it's probably not as crazy as the media makes it out to be and most of the time that's true. I'm not American so it makes it easier to dismiss American issues.

[-] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

I moved to Arizona, where I can drive 0.2 miles to the weed store.

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[-] AuntieFreeze@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

Going fishing.

[-] 31337@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago

Using the Serenity Prayer as inspiration (though I'm an atheist and not an addict), I try to accept what I cannot change, and change the things I can.

I also try to keep busy with hobbies such as gardening and woodworking.

I suppose I should probably try to get into some type of activism or community type stuff, but I'm not at all an outgoing type of person.

[-] ihavenopeopleskills@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago

I focus on one thing at a time in my sphere of influence.

[-] socsa@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think about how things actually were 50 years ago, and how every generation since the dawn of written history has the same exact end times mythology and then correctly conclude that I am merely suffering from the same delusion as nearly every human prior to me.

Also I own a glock and three bullets.

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[-] Blackmist@feddit.uk 7 points 1 year ago

Can't change it, don't care about it.

You are tuning in to the Tragedy of the Week Show. Next week they'll have another to show you.

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[-] Kbin_space_program@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

There is no guarantee that as a white male you get anything.

That kind of thinking is only present in the racist concept that Europeans have always been at the top.

They haven't. Western Europeans weren't the top of anything until the Renaissance(except maybe at being mostly peaceful, having a measure of women's rights and being outright genocided and colonized by the Romans).

[-] Godric@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

“I wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo. “So do I,” said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

Worry without action is of no tangible use. If you just worry, ACT!

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[-] HasturInYellow@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I have lost all hope and am behaving as though we will all be dead within 25 years, and although that is not LITERALLY true, the actual reality is that billions will die in the coming decades and it won't be peacefully in their sleep. The famines, wars and plain savagery will be awe inspiring to witness. The die offs of all life in the oceans and the insects will doom us to a swift death.

I exist and nothing more. I have no feelings one way or the other at this point. If I get hit by a car on my way home, it would be just as enjoyable as if I watched a good movie, although if I were to die in the crash, it might be a bit better than the movie.

I only hope that I can exact some form of vengeance on those responsible before we all perish.

[-] PanArab@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That’s a very relative and personal question. Because for me the world is getting better. Not everyone lives in the US, here we graduate university with money saved instead of being in debt

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[-] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

The only things worth worrying about are the things that you can control. Don’t worry about who wins the election, just worry about your vote. Don’t worry about what you don’t have, take joy in the things you do have.

Find your village, whether that’s the community of your favorite hobby, a group of local friends, or your family and invest in them and not a politician, celebrity, or athlete.

There is always a reason to find joy.

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

the fact that the world isn't getting any better

I think you've beggared (begged) the question.

[-] SuperSpruce@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 year ago

By doing things that make me happy.

[-] Saigonauticon@voltage.vn 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was sort of in the same boat, although in Canada. We had our own set of different, also serious issues that were not getting any better. I couldn't see any way to do anything about it myself, or even secure myself an OK life in the country.

So, I emigrated. Just like so many generations of my family before me, from their various home countries. I'm not sure if I'm up to the task of making the whole world better, but at least I can move somewhere where I can be productive enough to make things locally better (for myself and perhaps even a few others).

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[-] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago
[-] zecg@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Having kids helps, it's their problem now.

[-] berrodeguarana@lemmy.eco.br 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I try to remind myself that, in the great scheme of things (i.e, evolution) a "step forward, two steps back" is a common thing in this chaotic universe of ours.

Meteors, dinosaurs, civil wars, capitalism issues, pandemics, murder, genocide, climatic changes... it's all accounted for.

Of course, the answer is different if you are suffering directly from these things (apart from the meteors and dinosaurs) I mentioned above, then things suddenly get VERY personal and provoke impulsive reactions from our end.

[-] Trollivier@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

2023 has been a calamity for my health, both physical and mental. The state of things doesn't help. I'm better now. Touching wood.

[-] vortexal@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I do what I can to just ignore it. Sure, I don't have a lot and my life is pretty shitty but I always remember that someone somewhere else probably has it significantly worse. Also, while I know it's morbid to think like this, I know that if things get really bad, there will always be a way out.

[-] Sgt_choke_n_stroke@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Anger, I simply want to out live my enemies and shit talk them when they die. I'm waiting on Bill oriley, Glen beck, bezos, Bill gates, Rupert murdoch and the other koch brother to croak simply to shit talk them to oblivion and pass this information too my children.

[-] hperrin@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

You got a bad attitude, bud.

[-] hallettj@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

I've been reading about increasing unionization and strike activity, leading to better deals for large groups of workers. The industry-level negotiations we're already seeing are helpful in isolation; but that's also the kind of energy that can lead to economic reforms that have a real impact on quality of life. Workers seem like the little guys, until a lot of them are pulling in the same direction, and then suddenly their demands become existentially important.

About a century-ish ago Americans were worse off than they are now. That led to desire for change, which led to decades of trust-busting, unionization, and regulation. We got things like weekends off, and a livable minimum wage. And not entirely unrelated, we also got national parks, the EPA, and endangered species preservation. We've back-slid a lot since those advances. But we can get them back, and push the needle even further next time. We did it before, we can do it again.

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