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[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 114 points 11 months ago

Someone I used to work with gets paid a truly ridiculous amount of money because she changes jobs around every 14 months to 2 years. She hates every job she takes and is constantly worried that her boss hates her in every role. I don't think she's happy, despite the huge pay. I'd rather be happy. I work to live, not live to work.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 65 points 11 months ago

I hope she retires early and enjoys life after work.

[-] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 11 points 11 months ago

FIRE people know

[-] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 28 points 11 months ago

That's the thing, being able to pay bills makes me happy. Work will never make me happy.

[-] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 15 points 11 months ago

That's the thing, paying bills doesn't make you happy, it just temporarily eliminates the drop in happiness that would occur if you didn't pay those bills.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago

Happiness is just a lack of unhappiness

[-] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 9 points 11 months ago

Well no. My point is that while money can't buy happiness, it can mitigate sources of unhappiness.

[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

I dunno, money can also buy a jet ski

[-] Ookami38@sh.itjust.works 8 points 11 months ago

Money can't directly buy happiness, but it certainly smooths out the path. Also, money may not be able to buy happiness, but not-money can't buy anything.

I agree with you that the pursuit of an ever-increasing bank account is probably not a route to happiness (or more importantly contentedness, happiness is fleeting), but the reality of our world is that not having a livable amount of money tends to put direct blocks in front of your contentedness, which having money tends to dissolve.

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[-] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago

Yeah, i have a friend like that. Gets paid twice (maybe 3x?) what i do but has no friends and is miserable. Well, things have been getting better for him at least and i've been making more money lately so i guess things are looking up.

[-] SandroHc@lemmy.world 23 points 11 months ago

So, you have a friend that has no friends? 🤨

[-] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 11 points 11 months ago

It's complicated.

[-] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 58 points 11 months ago

Yeah the new strategy is lateral climbing. Companies don't value loyalty and don't give raises for sticking around anymore, so fuck em.

[-] shalafi@lemmy.world 56 points 11 months ago

I laugh at people bitching about their pay. Move. On. Why would the company suddenly throw you a 20% raise!? Out of the goodness of their heart?

My last 3 jobs (top pay): $14 -> $22 -> $39. At this point I could probably jump ship for more but I'm quite content to retire out of this place.

Stay put 3-5 years, gain experience, jump. When we moved here my buddy took a job at an oil change place, barely above min wage and far below his skillset. Kept job hopping and now he's making $120K+.

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[-] RobMyBot@lemmy.ml 51 points 11 months ago

...I should look for a new job, perhaps

[-] AlternatePersonMan@lemmy.world 32 points 11 months ago

Doesn't hurt to check out your options. And almost any job will welcome you back (usually at your new pay rate) if you change your mind down the road.

Over my career, lateral moves have netted me +80%, +30%, and 20%. Not to mention quality of work/life improvements.

Most companies basically offer a < 5% raise every year, which is just around inflation. Maybe a 10% bump if you get promoted. The wider world values your skills much more.

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[-] thorbot@lemmy.world 43 points 11 months ago

It’s sad how true this is. I quit my job and went to work for another company for a year. The previous company contacted me wanting me back, and hired be back after a year for $15k more than before. I’ve been there a year now and got a 3% raise. Probably should just quit again and get rehired

[-] WindowsEnjoyer@sh.itjust.works 12 points 11 months ago

Suddenly no more office-only or office-first policies, suddenly there is money to offer, suddenly there is possibility to have a better computer.

Also suddenly HR system couldn't work for a week, so signing a new counter-offer contract might not be possible at the moment. "Cancel your offer, you will sign in next week".

Interesting stuff :)

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[-] berrodeguarana@lemmy.eco.br 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Stupid question, wasn't that a risky move? I mean, the way I was raised to think by my parents I can hear their voices in the back of my head if I went through a situation like this, similar to this:

"But aren't you worried they might hire you then fire you just out of spite for switching companies? And then what are you gonna do?"

[-] blackstampede@sh.itjust.works 20 points 11 months ago

Not OP, but companies don't really care about people to that degree. They act for profit, or perceived profit, or to avoid a loss- someone that they know to be useful who is already familiar with the business is more valuable than an unknown.

[-] berrodeguarana@lemmy.eco.br 10 points 11 months ago

Makes sense. People think they are the center of the universe when companies only see you as an additional cog in the machine. I'm not sure if I'm happy or sad by this. I'll choose the positive side of things today.

[-] blackstampede@sh.itjust.works 5 points 11 months ago

Yeah, it's both shitty and sometimes useful. It reminds me of an article I read once about implicit hierarchies- sometimes when organizations try to do away with traditional management, what they end up with instead is an unofficial and opaque control structure based on cliques and influence. In those cases it can be better for newcomers if there is an explicit set of rules and guidelines.

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[-] thorbot@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

It wasn’t risky because I wanted to leave. I had problems with how they ran things. Then I realized the new place was even worse, and the old place reached out to me offering my job back. They explained how many of the things that I had issues with had been resolved or were being worked on. And they weren’t lying because I’m still there and quite happy.

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[-] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 28 points 11 months ago

I was born into a family run company. Gave them 10 years of my life. The first few years I worked really hard and got a 2-3 dollar raise. Shortly after, minimim wage went up to 50 cents below what I was making. I did not get another raise until 2-3 years down the line. Regardless who your employer is, get treated fairly or leave for somewhere that will treat you fairly.

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[-] spacecowboy@sh.itjust.works 27 points 11 months ago
[-] brlemworld@lemmy.world 18 points 11 months ago

Show me a union web dev job.

[-] spacecowboy@sh.itjust.works 18 points 11 months ago
[-] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 9 points 11 months ago

Unironically, this. At my previous company we started holding "engineering meetings" that deliberately excluded leadership, and had a lot of jokes about starting a union. By the time I quit it seemed like everyone was on board, so if anyone really wanted to push it then it could have happened.

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[-] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 26 points 11 months ago

Sad, but true. First 7 years of my software career were split between two companies and despite 3 promotions and exceeding expectations in reviews regularly, salary growth was between 2-5% YoY.

Most recent 5 years of my career I've changed jobs every 6ish months and am now averaging about 40% YoY salary growth.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 33 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Insane that a company will pay you a 20% premium to hire someone that they'll spend 6-months training just to watch said person fly off to another firm.

Contracting is even worse. Bring someone on to do menial piecework at 2x-5x the median company salary, then kick them out so you can bring on another person who has no idea how your company operates to do the same entry-level jobs. All so you don't have to tell investors how many people are actually on your payroll.

No wonder the business failure rate is so fucking high.

[-] EncryptKeeper@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago

And then they act like it’s the employees who are wrong. I bet every single one of the job hoppers enjoying these huge salary benefits would prefer to just chill in the same job forever if it achieved the same thing.

[-] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Its nice to be both secure in your job and confident in your work. Changing positions is exhausting, both in the job-hunting process and the re-training process once you land a new gig. Then you're back at the bottom of the "knows what I'm doing here" totem pole.

One big reason I'm at 6 years and counting in my current gig is the enjoyment I've had in building a system and maintaining it consistently. Its nice to know the folks in the business appreciate my work. And if I have to wave another company's job offer under my boss's nose from time to time in order to keep my salary competitive, I think that's more just a disconnect between management and staff I'm obligated to make for them every couple of years. At least they're receptive and responsive to my demands, which is more than I can say of prior employers.

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[-] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago

It's an absolute cluster. It's also led to me just not caring about the job or company anymore (not like I should).

I love supporting the team and my immediate coworkers, but I'm not there to make friends. For all we know our entire project gets canned one day anyway.

It's a sad state of affairs to basically take advantage of this situation, but like...company loyalty doesn't pay my bills.

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[-] HootinNHollerin@slrpnk.net 25 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Telling your manager how shit they are is very satisfying too

[-] OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml 15 points 11 months ago

It's not worth it if you chase money. Even the biggest assholes at your previous job might end up in a place adjacent to you, especially if you don't look internationally (or at least out of your area) for jobs.

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[-] CaptPretentious@lemmy.world 25 points 11 months ago

I've been with the same place for about 16 years. I wasted a lot of time staying in one department trying to be the best employee. I've moved repeatedly just within the company. Because moving within the company is pretty easy to do. The yearly pay raises I was getting was garbage. By moving departments and renegotiating my pay I've effectively doubled my pay from 4 years ago.

When there's no incentive to stay but all the reason to go...

[-] BallShapedMan@lemmy.world 22 points 11 months ago

I read a few times that there is a breaking point between people who switch jobs every 3 years on average. Any less often you make significantly less at retirement.

I'm sure there is a value that's too often but I've tried to stay pretty close to the 3 year mark and we make about 5x what my wife and I wanted to make at retirement.

[-] AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 20 points 11 months ago

It sucks but it's true. These days, loyalty just means you're easier to take for granted.

[-] yamanii@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

Yep, a medium sized youtuber that worked as HR said this to everyone that is looking for a raise: change company and come back.

[-] neptune@dmv.social 15 points 11 months ago

Always good to know what you are worth and keep interviewing skills sharp. But yeah, you could wait years for a promotion (more responsibilities!) and it only be 10% whereas a lateral move at a new company could be higher pay for the same type/amount of work. Crazy, right?

[-] shalafi@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

I laugh at people bitching about their pay. Move. On. Why would the company suddenly throw you a 20% raise!? Out of the goodness of their heart?

My last 3 jobs (top pay): $14 -> $22 -> $39. At this point I could probably jump ship for more but I'm quite content to retire out of this place.

Stay put 3-5 years, gain experience, jump. When we moved here my buddy took a job at an oil change place, barely above min wage and far below his skillset. Kept job hopping and now he's making $120K+.

[-] CyberDragonCore@programming.dev 9 points 11 months ago

I have been working at my current company for two years. Because China's economic environment is not good, I have never dared to leave this job.

[-] pewgar_seemsimandroid 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

which china?

[-] hubobes@sh.itjust.works 6 points 11 months ago

I get what the market gets, we pay the average for your age, experience and some other factors. So I get a bump anyway since I am older and have more experience every year and when the market gets a bump that adds to that. So it is somewhere between 5-15% per year. Except for this year where somehow the average pay went down and I got zilch. Still the company is fully owned by its employees (I make like 3k a year from dividends, not a lot but it is basically free money) and the benefits are great. So not eager to jump ship just for a pay increase.

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