2865
Online dating (lemmy.world)
(page 2) 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] hardcoreufo@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

This is a red flag. It means he listens exclusively to Nickelback and Creed.

load more comments (4 replies)
[-] Tygr@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

People do that when they don’t have an answer. I can’t remember the last song I’ve saved, for instance.

[-] thegiddystitcher@lemm.ee 31 points 1 year ago

What does "saving" a song even mean? I'm old and confused

[-] cals11@programming.dev 30 points 1 year ago

liking/favoriting/adding to a playlist, etc

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments (3 replies)
[-] bighi@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

People do that when they don’t have an answer

People do that when they don't know the basics of interacting with another human being.

Just say whatever song you like. It's better than acting like a jerk. Even saying "I can't remember, I haven't heard a song in a long time" is better than being a jerk with a person you just met on a DATING APP.

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments (10 replies)
[-] Shinra_K@kbin.social 30 points 1 year ago

It's probably CBAT or the 4kids Digimon opening

[-] UziBobuzi@kbin.social 29 points 1 year ago

Well, now she knows he's not worth the trouble of the first date.

[-] Monochromepsychward@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

I think with the horror show dating has become in general, people are becoming more and more afraid to be vulnerable in even the slightest perceived ways. 😞 There's a reason for the loneliness epidemic. Between mass narcissism and guttural fear of winding up with a person who will just use/abuse you, I'm shocked I haven't seen worse. 😐

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] Resonosity@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago

Holy shit, the head on this person must be as hard as Earth's core got dyam

load more comments (2 replies)
[-] Scientician@waveform.social 21 points 1 year ago

Why be frustrated? This person just saved you a boring evening.

load more comments (1 replies)
[-] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

Probably something like My Little Pony remix

[-] ichigo@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

If that person can't share music, god knows what else they can't share

If I have to pry answers out of someone, I'd rather cut my losses and move on.

Does this guy think he's cool or mysterious?

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] brad@toad.work 18 points 1 year ago

This translates to "I do not have anything impressive to say off the top of my head and I'm panicking now"

[-] hglman@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 year ago

High odds of a bot

[-] alextastic@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

Is this real? That was painful to read.

[-] wolfcatreader@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Kudos to you for demonstrating interest in getting to know whoever you cross on these platforms (a rarity these days...) 🙌🏽

I relate to your discomfort. I usually unmatch or block such vibes bc the point of these apps is to date, which implies getting to know each other. If one is unwilling to put in the work (as minimal as it may seem), just spare folx who are interested in the above.

So much has changed in the dating scene. Sometimes, I am asked why I am being nosy or psychoanalyzing them. 🙄 Dude, you're on a dating app, right?

P.S.: I respect boundaries, but such questions are essential in familiarizing oneself with someone.

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments
view more: ‹ prev next ›
this post was submitted on 07 Jul 2023
2865 points (100.0% liked)

Mildly Infuriating

35723 readers
955 users here now

Home to all things "Mildly Infuriating" Not infuriating, not enraging. Mildly Infuriating. All posts should reflect that.

I want my day mildly ruined, not completely ruined. Please remember to refrain from reposting old content. If you post a post from reddit it is good practice to include a link and credit the OP. I'm not about stealing content!

It's just good to get something in this website for casual viewing whilst refreshing original content is added overtime.


Rules:

1. Be Respectful


Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.

Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.

...


2. No Illegal Content


Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.

That means: -No promoting violence/threats against any individuals

-No CSA content or Revenge Porn

-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)

...


3. No Spam


Posting the same post, no matter the intent is against the rules.

-If you have posted content, please refrain from re-posting said content within this community.

-Do not spam posts with intent to harass, annoy, bully, advertise, scam or harm this community.

-No posting Scams/Advertisements/Phishing Links/IP Grabbers

-No Bots, Bots will be banned from the community.

...


4. No Porn/ExplicitContent


-Do not post explicit content. Lemmy.World is not the instance for NSFW content.

-Do not post Gore or Shock Content.

...


5. No Enciting Harassment,Brigading, Doxxing or Witch Hunts


-Do not Brigade other Communities

-No calls to action against other communities/users within Lemmy or outside of Lemmy.

-No Witch Hunts against users/communities.

-No content that harasses members within or outside of the community.

...


6. NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.


-Content that is NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.

-Content that might be distressing should be kept behind NSFW tags.

...


7. Content should match the theme of this community.


-Content should be Mildly infuriating.

-At this time we permit content that is infuriating until an infuriating community is made available.

...


8. Reposting of Reddit content is permitted, try to credit the OC.


-Please consider crediting the OC when reposting content. A name of the user or a link to the original post is sufficient.

...

...


Also check out:

Partnered Communities:

1.Lemmy Review

2.Lemmy Be Wholesome

3.Lemmy Shitpost

4.No Stupid Questions

5.You Should Know

6.Credible Defense


Reach out to LillianVS for inclusion on the sidebar.

All communities included on the sidebar are to be made in compliance with the instance rules.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS