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submitted 11 months ago by Tugboater203@kbin.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I have the opportunity to go to a SA concert next year but I'm old and Grey. I don't want go if im the ceeepy old guy. Thoughts? I do know and enjoy a bit of his misic.

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[-] not_that_guy05@lemmy.world 56 points 11 months ago

No one cares how old you are as long as don't act like a creep. When I was going to shows and raves early 2k, there were still old heads going with parachute pants and beads. Don't know now after COVID, since I've seen videos without PLUR and becoming more of an influencer show now.

[-] Tugboater203@kbin.social 26 points 11 months ago

I'll dust off my finest Hawaiian shirt, I may have to go to Goodwill to get my parachute pants back though.

[-] EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted 11 points 11 months ago

Fuck yeah! Have fun, friend!

[-] scottywh@lemmy.world 36 points 11 months ago

Hell, Aioki himself turns 46 this month... I think you're overthinking it.

[-] DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca 33 points 11 months ago

I don't think you'll have much of an issue. He started getting mainstream success over 10 years ago, and he's in his 40's.

[-] HappyRedditRefugee@lemm.ee 20 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

There are always older peeps in rave, festivals, concerts, discos... no one cares, and to be fair, I don't think most people in communitiy would take kindly to ageisim. Enjoy!

[-] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 16 points 11 months ago
  1. Have fun, publicly and obviously
  2. Be clean and dressed not too far out of the norm for the fandom (according to the subculture norms, not familiar with the artist in question)
  3. Don't approach anyone with any kind of sexual hints, even if ambiguous
  4. Act like you know others will make fun of you for being a creepy old guy, show you own it
[-] GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml 16 points 11 months ago

Go with confidence my friend

[-] nonfuinoncuro@lemm.ee 11 points 11 months ago

Is everyone a bot in here?! When did he change his name to Aioki???

[-] scottywh@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

By the way.,.yes, we're all bots... Go deal with your captchas, human.

[-] scottywh@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Would you prefer that people referred to the guy as the Benihana kid?

[-] Tugboater203@kbin.social 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Lol a bot would have spelled it right. I'm leaving my mistake, and basking in it.

[-] pipe01@lemmy.pipe01.net 1 points 11 months ago

Lol I was just going to google it

[-] Eonandahalf@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago
[-] BingoBangoBongo@midwest.social 7 points 11 months ago

Keep you eyes on the show and not the kids?

[-] Devi@kbin.social 6 points 11 months ago

I saw him at a festival years ago and the crowd was quite mixed, I don't think you'd look out of place at all.

[-] ursakhiin@beehaw.org 3 points 11 months ago

Yeah.. dudes been active since the 90s. Is his crowd considered young?

[-] scytale@lemm.ee 5 points 11 months ago

If Band Maid can fill a venue with 40 to 50 year old dudes banging their heads to a group of girls in maid outfits playing rock and roll, you should be fine at a Steve Aioki concert. Just don't act like an actual creep and no one will care.

[-] pip@slrpnk.net 3 points 11 months ago

This sounds a tad vain, however, it would probably depend on how you dress (and act)

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