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Today, I'm defeated (lemmy.world)

Being independent can be incredibly fulfilling.

It can also be fucking exhausting sometimes.

My car battery died, so I ordered a new one. I carefully checked the amperage, dimensions, and compatibility with my car model. It arrived, I removed the old battery (which was no small feat, and I was ridiculously proud of myself when I finally managed it) and then discovered that the terminals on the new battery were reversed and it wouldn't work.

So now I have to return it. Which means carrying a 15 kg battery to the post office.

Then I have to wait for the correct one to arrive.

And after that, I get to figure out why two of my tyres are flat (no problem, I have a spare tyre and ordered a charger/air blower thingy, hopefully it will work).

I am perfectly capable of taking care of my own shit.

I'm just getting a little tired of it. But lesson learned: buy the exact same model of whatever you need to replace if you can.

/rant

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[-] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 3 points 11 hours ago

How odd. I've never seen or heard of that before.

[-] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 4 points 14 hours ago

I don’t have enough information, but assuming your battery is compatible, can you just rotate it so that the terminals line up again?

[-] ZDL@lazysoci.al 5 points 9 hours ago

Original:

+---------------------------------+
| ++                           -- |
| ++                           -- |
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
+---------------------------------+

Rotated:

+---------------------------------+
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
|                                 |
| --                           ++ |
| --                           ++ |
+---------------------------------+

The box is symmetrical across a 180. The things on it aren't necessarily.

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 7 points 12 hours ago

That's when you find out the terminals are closer to one side of the battery than the other and the cables are 5cm too short

[-] Malyca@lemmy.zip 6 points 16 hours ago

I honestly wouldn't have even thought about that. Thank you for sharing so now I'll know if I ever need it. I'm sending you all the ehugs.

[-] AcidBurn@retrofed.com 35 points 1 day ago

Yeah, there's a code letter / number combination for getting the terminals and size right, and it's not obvious

https://askmyauto.com/car-battery-numbers-explained/?amp=1

Sucks to find this sort of thing from experience, sorry

[-] diablicja@lemmy.zip 4 points 10 hours ago

See, it's probably one of those things that people "just know" if they were raised around cars, and wouldn't ever think of if they weren't. I was raised very much in the spirit of equality, but was never invited around for car stuff (granted, my dad died when I was 13 and I was quite wild before that so maybe it wasn't really very safe). All I know about cars is stuff my husband taught me + some YouTube videos but there's still so much I don't know and maybe wouldn't think to ask. That's why my daughters learned how to top up wipers liquid as soon as they were tall enough to reach the intake and it goes on from there 😂

[-] AcidBurn@retrofed.com 3 points 10 hours ago

As I said, it's not obvious. I don't know why there's not just one sort that fits everything

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[-] Wren@lemmy.today 17 points 23 hours ago

I have no advice, only hugs.

[-] Beth@piefed.social 6 points 19 hours ago

Roadside assistance is worth every penny if you can swing it.

[-] boaratio@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

I would normally agree, but AAA in the US has been fully enshittified.

[-] Drusas@fedia.io 1 points 12 hours ago
[-] boaratio@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Back when I was in college, it was a once per year fee. Everyone got the same level of service. Now there are tiers of service depending on how much you're willing to pay, and it's gone from having to pay once a year, to monthly if you want their best level of support.

[-] Malyca@lemmy.zip 4 points 16 hours ago

A lot of insurance policies include it now

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