I always clock how a man handles it when I disagree with him.
When I was dating more frequently, I would always preface an in-person date with a video or phone call. You can learn a lot about whether you get along with someone after a single phone call sometimes.
When i used to date i always postponed the first date on a somewhat short notice with an excuse and observed the reaction. Most guys where cool and understanding but some where actually pissed. So i was always happy i did that test.
I learned that when I was accidentally fifteen minutes late and the guy straight up left and complained. Thing was I told him I was having issues with my bike and had called a cab, so I might be late. Dodged a bullet, there.
Since then I'm always late to a first date (with explanation) just to see if they're the kind of guy who loses their shit.
yes it's saver to do such a test. I think i came up with it in a similar way like you. like i had to shift a date because i wasn't feeling well and the guy wasn't too happy about it. So it became a standard safety check.
this made me laugh
edit: because it's fucking spot on
That is a nice trick!
Where was that trick 30 years ago!?
Definitely not a new thing, unknown men have always been a potential danger that warrant a bit of testing before engaging with.
Even the manosphere community figured this out and called it a shit-test, one of the few kernels of truth in their backwards worldview.
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