This kind of bonnet? I think you can do it

Black people don't own bonnets (as a concept)...I think you're fine.

What?

Interestingly one of the few times I ever got pulled over was when I was on my way back from helping someone with yardwork and had my hair bundled up in a scarf so it didn't get nasty. It was so weird the cop actually apologized for pulling me over then drove off really suddenly. I definitely grew up in one of 'those' areas so I think he really did pull me over and was like 'wait shit you're white abort ABORT' which is so funny because like. I just do what works culture means very little to me.

White dad with a black daughter here--you should be fine, but if you're concerned, read up or watch videos to understand bonnets in black culture so that you can speak to it if someone ever brings it up. A simple, "yeah I don't have textured hair, it's a sensory thing for me" should clarify any confusion.

I get the impression the threadiverse is a very white space and to me, white people's opinion on what feels appropriative seems unlikely to have as much perspective as you might want if the question matters to you. If there are folks you're close with who it'd make sense to ask and are black, they might be a better crowd to ask. Or even a different part of the internet.

I think in general when you're wondering how people feel about something you need to talk to the affected people. Thats easiest when you have relationships where you know thats welcome, or if you go to a space where it is actively invited.

Maybe the folks answering are giving good answers rooted in perspective though- as some random white guy I wouldn't know short of asking someone else. Honestly my read on the demographics of the platform could be off too. Being that it's a somewhat anonymous feeling version of social media you don't have a great sense for who's answering your post and what kind of perspective they're speaking from 🤷🏻‍♂️

The racism doesn't happen on your head.

The racism happens when you make such decisions in your questions and statements:

"me ... a white person"

Oh. This is no stupid questions. FML. I'll save my jokes.

No. It's not offensive.

Do you and what's best for your health. You can't please everyone. When it comes to some things, if people can't understand, it's their problem, not yours.

I usually have my hair wrapped when I go outside after washing it. Never met anyone who cared.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bonnet_(headgear) i was picturing the lady in the first picture, but futher searching revealed i was wrong. Hope some other people understand the situation more for you.

I... don't understand the question as a concept to start with. Can you explain more of what you mean?

It's more of an European middle ages thing I guess? So no, it wouldn't be "cultural insensitive". Or I'm thinking about the wrong headgear.

There's probably a good chance you would come of as more mocking than quirky tbh. It's not like it's illegal though. I'm guessing you mean the shower headcap looking thing?

I don't see problem wearing that kinda showercap looking bonnets - but I would definitely look for different styles for myself. Because I don't care for that look, and not because I think it is racially patented.

I use a bonnet 🤷