I suspect it's a cuckoo wasp, but I'm not sure of the species.
Found in Southern Ohio, USA
Looks like a pseudo wasp to me. I think it's a fly.
Look up "Soldier Fly" and see if that's not closer to what you found.
I disagree. Fly eyes are very distinct and these look like wasp eyes to me. I agree with OP that it looks like a cuckoo wasp.
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